silic0ntoad Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 help!!! I looked at photos last night of 7 years - and it was still upsetting. I cannot believe she has turned her back on this - and I know deep dpwn she loves me - people have told me she still has - she hasnt moved on.. I feel your pain, jude. I've been there. I've been at the bottom of the pile and worked my way back up through all the bull****. Here are the keys: NC- it's the key to you surviving this situation. Right now you feel worthless, gray, cold and blank. Get the fire back. Take control of yourself. Cut her loose. Let me propose this: SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE. Get it? Good. Now cut her off. Don't reply to her texts or calls. Ignore her completely until she shows up on your doorstep, which at this point, I don't think will happen. I'm going to make this cut and dried for you and not hold any of this hankering "she may come bak" bull**** as truth. You need to act as though she ain't coming back, coz 99% chance is she won't. Cut her off. Heal. Learn. Move on and grow.
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