Author jazzpur Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 UPDATE: ...well i was right...she is protecting herself now i need help from ladies.... after waiting a while..she intiated again and set another date...i jokingly played it as if she were going to avoid me yet again... she randomly sent me a text tonight "i dont want to repeat history, thats why ive been a little avoidant" i replied with "????" she replied : "we used to talk and hangout and then you disappeared for years and now out of left field you come back around" i replied "call me" she said "i was afraid youd say that, i dont know if im prepd to talk about it" heres the inside info that i included earlier:...a few years back...i hung out with this girl in question 5 times at most and we'd chat a lot on aim but never on the phone. just casual friends with benifits. than another girl came around and pursued me...i happened to fall into a 3 year relationship with the other girl (now, my ex). i get the feeling that this broke her heart (girl in question), shes afraid ill do it again, i cant blame her. but i didnt choose to be with one girl over the other, it just so happened that the other girl asked me to be her bf and i gave it a shot. she was afraid to call me and talk about it tonight. i know that telling her i want to be serious will solve my problem, but eventhough i really like her, im not ready for that being i just got out of a 3 year relationship. have i lost all hope if im a "heartbreaker"?
phineas Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 She isn't a flake then. She just doesn't want to be your bootycall again.
Author jazzpur Posted June 8, 2010 Author Posted June 8, 2010 she knows i like her more than that...im just not ready to have a "serious" convo about it
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