prsawyer Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 There is a guy who I have met that is loud. outgoing and flirty type I am the opposite where I am quite & shy. Me & this guy work in the same office but not together in different departments. At first we talked on a regular basis nothing unusal. Then this stopped talking to me I assume he did want to be my friend because when I tried to talk with him. He would act all nervous & avoid me so I just ignored him. Then he began to approach me when were alone by talking & flirting. Now the only time he will really talk is when were alone. He can talk to everyone except me. he will also joke & tease people in the office especially the other girls but he will not joke & tease me. I do not understand why would a loud outgoing flirty type guy be more shy around me cause when we talk he is more quite from his voice more sweet & sincere around me. Cause he approach me first showing signs he like me. I did not like him at first I was friendly. I know he can talk with girls for some reason he acts differemt around me tgan he does with the other girls. When he does flirt with me he winks & number occassions he will stare at me deep into my eyes not say a word & not smiling other times he smiles with his face all lit up. he has alo brushed up against me & will try l look down my shirt if i wear a a low cut top but the other girls do but he does not look down there shirt. He will also stare and look really sad when I am talking with another guy or hug one of my guy friends. We have also had lunch alone & he has waited outside the office just to say goodbye to me which he has not ever done with the other girls. Now I flirt with him & like him. Does he act shy & nervous around me because he likes me or is the reason he knows I like him now & he does not have the same feelings for me. Do you think he likes me or is just trying to be friendly. the other girls in the office I have never seen him act nervous or shy even flirt with them the same way as he does with me.
moosegreen Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 ya id say he likes ya...im the same way and can talk to girls no probem...but when i meet one i like and would like to get to know more i just get right shy and dont really know what to say at times....it was really bad in high school haha...he might be waiting for you to ask him out or somthing...some guys would rather be asked out....but just heads up with gettin involved with someone in the work places...iv seen em go good and seen em go reaaaally bad fast
ADF Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Men almost newer go out of their way to befriend women unless they are attracted to them. Almost newer. If a man makes any effort at all to get to know you, you can be sure he is interested in you romantically and/or seuxally. If he wasn't, he wouldn't bother.
Engadget Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Men almost newer go out of their way to befriend women unless they are attracted to them. Almost newer. If a man makes any effort at all to get to know you, you can be sure he is interested in you romantically and/or seuxally. If he wasn't, he wouldn't bother. That is true, but sometimes we do just want to be friends even if there is attraction. I'm doing that with a girl now, and I've stayed away from making a move so we don't ruin the friendship.
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