ashlay Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 so, this guy and I hooked up a few weeks ago. after, we exchanged numbers and we've texted and talked on the phone (he usually initiates contact). the thing is we live about an hour away from each other. so last weekend, I was back in town and we both had busy weekends, but we talked about hanging out friday. anyway, he had something to do and wasn't done until 10, and at that point I was tired and we both had to be up early, so I turned him down. Saturday I knew he couldn't go out and had to sleep, but I went out with other friends and ended up drunk texting him twice about how i was upset he was asleep and wanted to come over. i apologized sunday, and he told me "no worries. hope you had a fun night." and i just said "yeah, from what i remember, it was" and he said "nice." anyway, he hasn't contacted me since. i know he's out of town on a business trip this week. anyway, do you think i messed things up? should i try to contact him or just wait things out? thanks for the help
BetterOffWithoutYou Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 i would wait it out. this way you can see if he truly cares or if it was just a one night stand and he is being kind to you. if this is a guy who is only considering you to be a booty call then don't expect him to be in contact unless he wants to hook up. its up to you if you're ok with this type of behavior or not. good luck <3
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Just wanted to post in the thread commenced by the first post of a new LoveShack denizen called Ashlay. It was a good read.
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