ss1 Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Recently my second wife went of travel and met up with some female co-workers. They went out drinking together to burn off a little steam, something I didn't think nothing of. Well the following evening she tells me that they met up with a male co-worker as well and ended up going to his room hoping for a mini-bar. He ended up pulling the sofa bed out and she and a female coworker crashed on the sofa bed and another in the bed with him (clothed). She text me that evening she was going to bed that evening, but it wasn't her hotel bed. "I have a personnel rule, married you make it back to your bed hell or high water." Now she tells me that nothing happen, and that she new she was sleeping on the sofa bed, but when they woke up they felt it was so wrong at so many levels. This does upset me, it damages my trust, and I question if she new where she was, but so drunk she didn't think it was wrong then how can one think she didn't think everything else through. How does one know that she didn't just pass out and get taken advantage of? And many more questions. We spoke of this over the phone, and I expressed my appreciation that she told me the situation. I expressed that I was disappointed and that she put her career at risk and we should discuss further upon her return. She has no past history of doing something so stupid that I am aware, but I am hurt, and concerned for her and it hurts that this damages the ultimate trust I have in her. This pushed me to question her state of mind when she goes drinking.. Feedback is appreciated.
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