highlyevolved Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 I only see my bf like once a week lately. I really don't think that's good enough. Like he only lives 25 minute drive away. I ALWAYS go to his house cause he doesn't drive. But basically he sees his friends the same if not more than me. I can't see how our relationship can possibly grow with lack of seeing each other. The other night when I went home after 24hrs there he was like "when will I see you next" and i'm like "whenever you want" to which he replied "i always wanna see you". But yeah that night he ended up hanging out with a friend, same as last night, tonight im working and friday and saturday I've got things on with friends. I just feel like I'm being put into a routine with him and that the only times we'lll ever see each other is monday night (cause he usually has tuesdays off). How would you address this issue without creating tension? cheers
Author highlyevolved Posted May 20, 2010 Author Posted May 20, 2010 About 3 months. Known him for about 1 1/2 though.
TaraMaiden Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Like, I would drive over and surprise him, like every evening, like, make time to be with him, and like, if he doesn't seem to warm to that, dump him. Find someone who wants to be with you, and only you, 100% and who likes you and who you like. Like.
St. Nick Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 About 3 months. Known him for about 1 1/2 though. Tell him bluntly you want to see him more often. As a guy, that's the best way I could understand a woman is truly serious about our relationship. If I was your bf and you said to me, "St. Nick, I want to see you more often than just once a week. We can either make the effort to meet halfway. Or you can start driving or taking a cab to see me. Couples need to see each other more. I'm tired of this long distance garbage". As most women know, guys do not understand women and their subtlety. If you try to be subtle or not say anything at all. It'll only make things worse. Be blunt. If being blunt creates tension then that might mean he's got another girl on the side.
Author highlyevolved Posted May 20, 2010 Author Posted May 20, 2010 I haven't heard from him in 2 days. Im getting to the point where im just like f**k it.
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