hopefulguy Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Quick summary...I was with my ex for 5 years. its been almost a year since we broke up. she has a boyfriend right now...i think they are still together, not sure. but she broke up with me cause i was her first and she wanted to see whats out there and get dating experience...yea yea, which i know means to sleep around. ive learned about all the bs they spit out. we were only 22 when we split...we have alot of living to do still so i understood. the past 5 months we've talked maybe about 2-3 times and saw eachother once. On my bday a few months back, she got me a gift...so i just told told her to drop it off cause i wouldnt be home. she then came and dropped her puppy off that we raised together at my house, maybe knowing i will be there later so she can see me. it worked...and then i started to miss her again..which is why i tried to avoid seeing her. then she gave me my gift, and it was a picture frame of the 2 dogs we raised together and the frame says "family" on it. it made my heart jump....but i quickly got over that and moved on... Then today i checked my email and she sent me an email last week saying she was reading some of the emials i sent her after we broke up. these were very heartfelt emails in which i poured my heart out to her, speaking of reconcilliation in the future and everything i felt about her and our history. she wanted to thank me for being so good to her afterwards, how much i understood, and how the words on those emails still get to her till this day. she also tells me about her new puppy and how its gonna be hard to raise him on her own now. i think shes still with that dude, but i dunno. Ive ignored her the last 4-5 months so that i can FULLY heal. i have for the most part, but she still gets to me...because she knows how to. shes with a bad boy right now which shes really attracted to. im not too nice of a guy, im kind of in between. but she always comes to me for other things....which im guessing that means she really wants to be friends, since we were best friends from the age of 17-22. i told her a million times i dont wanna be friends. either that or she still wants to string me along as a backup because she sees me losing interest. i really do feel it fading away, but she somehow has a way a pulling me back in.. just barely though! what do you guys think of this?? thanks for everyones input
Author hopefulguy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 oh yea, and do you think i should reply to the email?
McGrupp Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 oh yea, and do you think i should reply to the email? no....................
TaraMaiden Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 ......she still wants to string me along as a backup because she sees me losing interest. Yup. She yanks your chain. Why? Because she knows she can. Because you let her. Because you let her know she can. And what McGrupp said. If you say NC, mean it. And do it.
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