crimsoncittycat Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 i go to a local bar just to hang out and drink... i wasn't looking for someone to date or even sleep with. in fact i wanted nothing to do with any of that. so this guy i met a couple of times at the bar kept asking for my number and actually went to great lengths to get it. and when we started dating everything was pretty groovy. he brought me into his family life and everyone has started calling me his girlfriend. everything is pretty awesome except that it seems to me that he may be distancing himself now? or something... i'll text him or call him and most of the times he doesnt get back until 1 or 2 days later with really ****ty excuses. i dont blow up his phone and i dont nag. i havnt even talked about it with him at all, except this last time. all i said (in a text) was, "you suck at getting back to people! :)" which he replied with is "sorry ive been sick all day" im sure that this can be true and im willing to give him benefit of the doubt. but the thing is ive gotten similar excuses from him before. this happens all the time and we have only been dating for like 3 months. am i being crazy or do i have a viable arrgument? and if i do why is he doing this? and how can i make it stop? because it leaves me confused and i have no idea how to take him or his actions.
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