Confusedalways Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 So... I don't have an account on any online dating sites but I do browse them on occasion, both curiously and out of boredom. Last night I stumbled on someone who actually really looks like someone I would be interested in. I mean, I see lots of attractive people but we seemed really compatible, I don't know. Would it be completely weird of me to make an account just to message him? I'm not that excited about putting up a picture... what does one even say?! Men would you be creeped out if someone made an acct to message you? Not sure if it makes a difference but I'm 22.
Sivok Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 No, I find it flattering when a woman messages me on an online dating site - especially an attractive one who put effort in her message. Comment on something in his profile, etc. I always ignore ones that say stuff like 'heyyyy' or 'hii' or 'hey good looking '. Also, I highly recommend filling out a profile of your own completely. If a girl messaged me and she had no picture or profile filled out, I will not respond.
Author Confusedalways Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 I don't think the service he's on allows free members to message! I'll have to relook.
BetterOffWithoutYou Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I did that once and ended up finding a completely different guy in the end. If you want a free dating site (the one I tried) go to http://www.plentyoffish.com. Best of luck in the online dating world!!!
Author Confusedalways Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 Maybe it's you I'm trying to message these online dating etiquette questions are so hard!
Sivok Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Haha well if you have questions let me know. I've been using it for the past year and have been on numerous dates with quality women. I'll put you under my wing!
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