in_limbo Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 when my bf and i just started dating, he would text me a lot day and night. now, he doesn't do that anymore. i feel like i'm always the one initiating contact. what do you guys think? i'd appreciate a male perspective on this. thanks.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Maybe he thinks the mindless, pointless texting is not necessary anymore.
sally4sara Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Maybe now that you two are going out, he has more opportunity to tell you things in person rather than in text? No point in running up a text bill when you can relate face to face the things he previously would have text you about.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Stop initiating contact and inviting him to do things entirely. Take your time responding to his texts and calls. Spend more time doing things without him. You will be amazed at how up in your grills he will get.
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