Hurt_inside666 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I was chilling in a room of friends with my girlfriend. My friend and i were reading an article in the newspaper that had caught our attention. While we were reading I heard one of the guys I know make a kiss sound next to my girlfriend. It really bothered me, but before I could react, my friend took him outside to check him.... thats not it, so recently about a few weeks later, I talked to my girlfriend about it, and she told me that he had kissed her on the forehead. Somebody please explain why i shouldnt break his ****ing head off!!!! And why the **** didnt she say nothing to him about it. And still ****ing kicks it with him, like buddies, water fights and all.... but she claims that she is naive or am i just dumb?????????????????????//
TaraMaiden Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Both, I would say. Also, I would figure you're extremely young, so really, as this relationship may not ever be the be all and end all of your life, I'd just move on, and enjoy life a bit more. Does she mean so much to you that you'd take a bullet for her? I doubt it. So?
Mimolicious Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Second Tara. ...Let's be for real. You go breaking another person's jaw, odds are you are going to take a trip to central booking. Why ruin your future for some puppy love? If your GF sees nothing wrong and it bothers you this much, the truth is you can't change what she thinks but you can only control what you feel. Keep it moving...
reboot Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Omg! He kissed her on the forehead?? And he still lives!? If only all the trials and tribulations of the rest of your life could be so trivial.....
jnj express Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 What are you some kind of idiot. Use your fists, it costs you jail time or money---or is that what you are used to. Use your mouth and scare the crap out of him No repercussions!!!! Also why did your GF continue to sit next to him, WHEN SHE KNEW HE WAS FLIRTING WITH HER, and you were right across the room, she could have moved, or loudly told the guy to cool it---she did neither. If you stay with this girl have a long talk, about what a relationship, and a partnership is all about----otherwise leave her, and find a more responsible, and mature GF
seibert253 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 NO woman is worth going to prison for. What has worked for me in the past is taking sh#tball to a private area, and firmly but professionally "explain" to him that if he ever touches your GF again there will be "grave conseqences". Then leave it at that. Let his immagination dictate what "grave consequences" are. Most of the time they'll back down and apologize. If alcohol is involved they may get beer courage and try to talk sh#t. But, they never follow through. What troubles me about this is your GF's response, or lack there of. IMO if she didn't enjoy or entice this behavior, she would have checked him right after it occurred. Something you may wish to address with her IMO.
reboot Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Why should he take the guy anywhere and explain anything to him? Why shouldn't the gf be the one to shut the guy down? Too much testosterone in this thread.
phineas Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 he's young. she's an attention whore. When he gets older he'll realize it's best to just dump a woman like this because she is no good. The guy hitting on her while her boyfriend is in the same room is no good either.
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