PersonMan Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I just got a new job that sucks (aside that nearly 90% of my co-workers are women). Ive been getting trained the last week and the other day was the first time on the job solo. This one girl caught my eye, and I noticed that she was glancing over from afar when I first noticed her. Most of the time though, she was just busy doing her shift and I would glance over myself every now and then. So later on, I was cashing this lady out and something happened that ****ed up her transaction, that turned into this nearly 15 minute ordeal. The supervisor had to come and clear things up and so this lady went back to customer service and for a moment I was by myself. All the sudden, the "girl" came right over to talk to me. Smiling, etc. She just kept saying how that lady was being a real bitch to me and how it wasnt my fault, etc. Basically defending me. Then the lady came back and mystery girl left, and I never caught her name, but I was glad she came over to talk. I have a semi-interest in getting to know this girl more cause I think shes pretty attractive. What should I do? and what exactly does her defending me mean? Trust me, the notion of her just being nice has crossed my mind many a time, but im just not sure, and Id like outside input. I mean, this girl really didnt know what exactly had happened, came out of nowhere and defended me. I kept saying I was at fault but she kept saying how much of a bitch that lady was being to me, etc. Eh, it could just be absolutely nothing. I need a beer.
missfrenchie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Well, clearly she is a nice girl. Maybe she was just doing that... Being nice. Keep cool... Get to know her first...
Author PersonMan Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 So.. What should I make of it? obviously id like to get to know her more. Does it mean she could be interested? or even slightly? I realize this might be borderline "this girl sat next to me on the bus, does she like me?" material, which is insanely stupid.
missfrenchie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Hahaha.... It's very much like that and I guess it's hard to give a difinitive answer. It's very possible that she noticed you too, saw what happened and maybe wanted to make you feel better about the situation. Obviously you'll have more chances to see her again so I would maybe not assume anything just yet, and like I said, just play it cool and get to know her. Compliment her in some way, but try not to be tacky and what ever you do... Don't 'stare-stalk' her during your shift... You'll just come off as weird
missfrenchie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 PersonMan - Keep me posted though... I'd be interested to see how this turns out
Author PersonMan Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 (edited) Haha, well I dont work til Saturday now, and im not sure when ill see this girl again, but you can be sure I am hoping to. I mean, what really got me was that this girl had no idea what happened regarding the situation, but just came over and started saying "she was such a bitch, it was my first day, etc." and ****ing loud too. The lady was probably 15 feet away and this girl came right over and started. I refrained until she was out of what I figure to be an earshot, to bitch about her. Either way, I wanna get to know this broad. With my luck, shes probably already got a bf. Edited May 19, 2010 by PersonMan
missfrenchie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Well, IMO... You've at least got a bases for your next conversation. Thank her for sticking up for you... PERFECT!
missfrenchie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Haha, well I dont work til Saturday now, and im not sure when ill see this girl again, but you can be sure I am hoping to. I mean, what really got me was that this girl had no idea what happened regarding the situation, but just came over and started saying "she was such a bitch, it was my first day, etc." and ****ing loud too. The lady was probably 15 feet away and this girl came right over and started. I refrained until she was out of what I figure to be an earshot, to bitch about her. Either way, I wanna get to know this broad. With my luck, shes probably already got a bf. You don't know that she does... Don't think about that now anyway... Not until you know whether she does or she doesn't.
Author PersonMan Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 Not sure how id find out anyway, but I can get information from a friend who works there, who I actually referenced in the first place. Shes a gossip queen. She probably knows who she is.
Author PersonMan Posted May 25, 2010 Author Posted May 25, 2010 (edited) PersonMan - Keep me posted though... I'd be interested to see how this turns out I highly doubt ill ever figure out who this broad is. I just remember her being short, with long straight black hair, a piercing by her mouth?? and maybe blue eyes, i dunno. I went into work the other day and checked out the schedule when this "interaction" went down and thought I got her name but didnt. I thought it was this one girl and I got extremely disappointed, only to realize that its not her. I have no clue how or when I will find out this girl's identity, especially since there are a million people where we work and the shifts are all over the place. Im pretty positive it wasnt that one girl who I thought it was though, because this particular chick has brown hair with highlights and no piercing. We were also alone in the break room for like 10 mins and nothing happened (ie: her bringing up the incident) so im fairly positive its not her. Oh mystery girl Edited May 25, 2010 by PersonMan
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