Author OpenGL Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 But I thought you just stated that you despise women? So why would their opinion matter? Even though I despite women I have a natural need for female companionship, sadly. I wish that weren't the case, but I am a healthy heterosexual male with needs (both emotional and physical). I wouldn't despite women if we didn't live in such a superficial world that women buy into so readily. And you can provide me with all of the internet links, personal experience, etc that you would like. Every woman is different, just as every man is different. So are you going to try to tell me that you believe this woman is an outliner? That most women don't feel the same way? Thats laughable consider even single recent study about women and dating conclude the same thing.
torranceshipman Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Excuse me, what?! The top of your head isn't flat enough, you don't have enough veins in your arms and you are the wrong skin color? Wtf? Who even cares about stuff like that? Dude you are WAY over critical. Personally I couldn't give a crap about how flat the top of anyone's head is?!
CLC2008 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Do you look like this guy? http://farm1.static.flickr.com/161/384287506_d647c53116.jpg
Mimolicious Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Aren't you the one that thinks "looks" are all that matter??????? You sound more like a troll than a clown to me.
electricity Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 So are you going to try to tell me that you believe this woman is an outliner? That most women don't feel the same way? Thats laughable consider even single recent study about women and dating conclude the same thing. Out of curiosity, did you actually watch that clip? It just proves what Erica said and disproves everything you've been saying. Guys are simple - they look for kindness, interesting conversationalist, and "cute enough." The women she polled all came up with different answers, from poor fashion sense to Austin Powers imitations. Women can be picky, true. However, they are all different and all look for different things in an ideal mate. Nowhere does it say anything about women all looking for super tall, built men with six figure incomes.
EricaH329 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Even though I despite women I have a natural need for female companionship, sadly. I wish that weren't the case, but I am a healthy heterosexual male with needs (both emotional and physical). I wouldn't despite women if we didn't live in such a superficial world that women buy into so readily. And i'm sure women wouldn't despise you if you had a better attitude. Works both ways. Anyway, you honestly can't expect a woman to be attracted to you when you have such a bad attitude towards them. Who wants to be with someone that despises them? Looks are the least of your problems right now.
EricaH329 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Out of curiosity, did you actually watch that clip? It just proves what Erica said and disproves everything you've been saying. Guys are simple - they look for kindness, interesting conversationalist, and "cute enough." The women she polled all came up with different answers, from poor fashion sense to Austin Powers imitations. Women can be picky, true. However, they are all different and all look for different things in an ideal mate. Nowhere does it say anything about women all looking for super tall, built men with six figure incomes. Exactlyyyy!!! And I know for a fact that no girls 'wish list' is to have a man that has a terrible attitude, hates the way he looks, and despises women. Period. Time to stop blaming women and own up to your own faults as a man, like a man.
USMCHokie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Do you look like this guy? http://farm1.static.flickr.com/161/384287506_d647c53116.jpg I'd hit it.
donnamaybe Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I'd hit it. Ooooo, baby. Yeah, that's it. Now - just reach up and *beep* your nose for me. Ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!
CLC2008 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I'd hit it. ronald is pretty dashing...plus he donates his house for a good cause.
USMCHokie Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 ronald is pretty dashing...plus he donates his house for a good cause. Yep...compassion, fame, and loves children...what more could you ask for...? And daayummm...have you seen his feet...?
marsle85 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Yep...compassion, fame, and loves children...what more could you ask for...? And daayummm...have you seen his feet...? Don't let those men fool you. Michael Jackson also had those qualities AND donated his house for a "good cause"
PJKino Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I kidna feel the same way im not an attractive man..A somebody else said ignore all the cliche fluff people say here looks are a big part of what attracts people wheter people want to admit it or not sure there has to be MORE then just that but if someobdy isnt attracted to you physically at all theres no chance of a romantic relationship. So all the people will love you if you love yourself Man!!!!!!! bs is quite comical
sunnyup Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I wouldn't worry too much about it bud, this is why plastic surgery was invented, also you just have to work a little hard to make the money. Any man with money will scream to attractive young women "this guy can support me I should lay him".
CLC2008 Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Yep...compassion, fame, and loves children...what more could you ask for...? And daayummm...have you seen his feet...? Noooo.... That pic though, had myself cracking up all day!
bac Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 why don't you post a pic, if you really are that hideous I'm sure we might be more symapthetic Sure, you should post some pics. How do we know that you are a real guy?
Author OpenGL Posted May 20, 2010 Author Posted May 20, 2010 Sure, you should post some pics. How do we know that you are a real guy? No face pics as I fully intend to keep my anonymity.
Peaceful Guy Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Yes. Everyone thinks your just hideous!!!!! Feel better now? thank you yamaha!!
Peaceful Guy Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 No face pics as I fully intend to keep my anonymity. yah.. me too.. um.. even if you still think you're ugly consider this.. lots of us don't.. and we don't want you to feel bad about something like that. i mean, think of a younger brother or sister.. you think they're perfect just the way they are.. how do you get them to feel good about themselves? who cares what the bully said.. or what the other bully said.. we.. the people that care.. think you're just fine! who are you gonna listen to???
FitChick Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 Simply put, I care about my looks so much because in the real world women judge men primarily on their looks. I think men are more focused on women's appearance. Women will date just about anyone because many are desperate to have a man. Stephen Hawking is a head in a wheelchair and he's on wife number two.
Lakeside_runner Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 I think men are more focused on women's appearance. Women will date just about anyone because many are desperate to have a man. Stephen Hawking is a head in a wheelchair and he's on wife number two. Hahaha, that got me actually thinking about the notion of attractiveness itself. So essentially, one could suppose, there is a sort of "critical mass" above which people are datable. Imagine different categories like intelligence, looks, wealth, being social, attitude towards life etc. To each category assign a score and once a man has a high enough total score - he's in. Like Stephen Hawking - intelligence = off the scale and this combined with everything else besides looks makes him attractive to someone. My point is: there are people who have an even average score in all categories and there are people that have one/two scores of the chart and the rest may not even matter. The important thing is to have a good enough total score i.e. reach a "critical mass".
Author OpenGL Posted May 20, 2010 Author Posted May 20, 2010 Hahaha, that got me actually thinking about the notion of attractiveness itself. So essentially, one could suppose, there is a sort of "critical mass" above which people are datable. Imagine different categories like intelligence, looks, wealth, being social, attitude towards life etc. To each category assign a score and once a man has a high enough total score - he's in. Like Stephen Hawking - intelligence = off the scale and this combined with everything else besides looks makes him attractive to someone. My point is: there are people who have an even average score in all categories and there are people that have one/two scores of the chart and the rest may not even matter. The important thing is to have a good enough total score i.e. reach a "critical mass". I don't agree at all with what FitChick said but here is what I rate myself as: Looks: 2/5 Intelligence: 4/5 Humor: 3/5 Wealth/Income: 3/5 Social Status: 2/5
Lakeside_runner Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 I don't agree at all with what FitChick said but here is what I rate myself as: Looks: 2/5 Intelligence: 4/5 Humor: 3/5 Wealth/Income: 3/5 Social Status: 2/5 What about other categories? OpenGL: the truth is, as much as it hurts, POSITIVE people attract other people. It is as simple as it sounds. Maybe you should give up dating for a while. Make it your goal - I'm not gonna date anyone, not even look for dates, for the next year or 18 months. Focus on your life. Do something fun! Just forget about dating as a part of life for a while. I don't know you at all but from reading your posts I've an impression of a jaded, bitter person who doesn't really enjoy life at all. And, perhaps, this is what makes you unattractive?
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