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Seeing ex this weekend and I'm freaking out!


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Some of you may have read about my story with my ex. We were involved in a long-distance, but very intense relationship for a time. It ended in a very ugly way when he started doing drugs and basically pushed everyone away, starting with me.

 

That was 7 months ago. We've been on and off in contact since then. He is no longer involved in drugs. As it turns out, we will soon be living fairly close to each other. He stated that he wants to try to get back together.

 

However, it's always been an issue that he appears and disappears off the radar whenever he wants. Contact is always on his terms. I can't cope with that. A couple of days ago I freaked out and told him I didn't think a relationship between us was a good idea for a long list of reasons, but I think he kinda blew it off as me being angry. <_<

 

I'm moving there this weekend and I will be seeing him then. I have not seen him since last August. I don't know what to do, or what to say. I'm not even sure where we stand at the moment, and although I still have feelings for him, there is too much resentment from the past.

 

Any ideas on how should I approach the meeting with him? Any advice would be appreciated.

 

 

Arabella

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