neveragain2493 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I've dated my boyfriend close to half a year now, and we love each other. We've done everything else but sex, and he feels hypocritical even doing that. I'm not complaining or arguing with him, but he had sex with his last girlfriend (of a year and a half) and not me. It makes me feel like she has something I don't. He knows I've never done that before and really want to experience it with him. He told me that a couple of months after he and his ex had sex, the relationship started to feel different, and he started to regret it; he said he didn't want that with me. He also said he didn't want me to get pregnant because 'there's always a chance no matter what'. As glad as I am that he cares about our relationship, I feel like I'm never going to get that chance with him. That and the feeling that I'm bothering him with this kills me. Keep in mind that he respects me more than any guy I've ever met.
BobSacamento Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Oh brother, dump the zero and get with a hero. The only time I'd feel guilty about having sex with a woman that I was in a relationship with is if I was in a relationship with ANOTHER woman.
Curt Posted May 19, 2010 Moderators Posted May 19, 2010 Yes, Bob is right. Hmmm ...unless he has deep religious or personal convictions about not doin the deed, (or he has medical issues) there seems to be something definitely off here... Did you say you're a virgin? My heavens ... that is usually the best of challenges and "goals" for a guy ... Somethings odd here, well, notwithstanding the possibilities that something I said above might be true. Curt
marsle85 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I'd try to work it out with him, give him the benefit of the doubt- but if things remain constant, I'd probably dump him... but sex is important to me, it may not be as big of a deal to you.
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