Fordboy98 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Well its been a year since my last relationship and ive been keeping a low key cause i'm sick of dead ends. I told myself that everything will happen in time and theres no need to rush, so i just layed back and went with the flow. So about a week ago i was at work and i found someones cell phone on the ground, i picked it up and left it on my work bench, about an hour later a girl that worked with me but had switched to another shift came over asking about it. I gave her the phone and i decided to spark up a converstaion, thats when i found out that we had alot in common. I never use to talk to her that much since i thought she had a bf and i was always to shy and never knew what to say. So the next day i saw her again and asked if she wanted to get coffee sometime, she said of course and she gave me her number. We txted back a forth like crazy and that coffee turned into a dinner. So the first date got canceled but we rescheduled. So when the big day finally came we both were nervous but i made sure i kept the date about her. I asked her questions and said a few jokes that made her laugh to help break the ice. It went good and she actually told me that it went better then she thought it would and said that i looked hot, lol. So the next day i sent her a txt saying" hey, whats up" and she replied "hey there" i asked her how here day was going and she never replied, but where before it was constent. It also didn't seem right for some reason. Should i send her another message or do i call her now? i'd talk to her but shes got a different shift than me. She said the date was good and she wanted to do it again sometime so i thought that was a good sighn. All im really wondering is how do i know if she liked me? i really don't wanna keep pushing this along if shes doesn't feel the same. Its been a while and hopfully someone can help me out or has been threw the same thing. BTW Sorry for such a long post!!! Thank you for your time, Fordboy98
Change2 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I would just call her again when you think she might be free. If she doesn't answer you can leave a message. If you don't get call back this time then you have your answer. Or i guess text her.
Fouts Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Hopefully for your sake, something came up. But from what you've written, it doesn't look good.
PersonMan Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Hopefully for your sake, something came up. But from what you've written, it doesn't look good. His entire post is good, aside her not responding right away to a text. Im not sure that deems the entire thing a failure or "not good" because for the first time she didnt reply to a text right away.
Fouts Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I hope it works out for him, but in my experience women that are hot for you get in touch pretty quick, to make sure you don't slip away. Going from texting like crazy before the date, to a "hey there" and no reply after the date pretty much sums it up.
PersonMan Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Her telling him he looked hot, laughing at his jokes and wanting to do it again doesnt exactly scream hes dead in the water just yet. Shes probably real busy. People have their reasons, and im sure 10/10 people dont reply to every text immediately. We have all done it.
Author Fordboy98 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 Thanks guys! Im still in shock by how she said the date went good and her saying that she wants to do it again but then not keeping in contact. im going to try one more time and if she still doesn't reply then ill know. Thanks for all your help!
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