nuke88star Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 first of of hi everyone i'm new and i just need help bad because i cant read this girl at all what does it look like did she blow me off or just wants to be finreds the girl was staring at me all semester long i liked her but too scared to go up to her, but last day i finally went up and talked to her. then i added her on FB she wrote something, then we talked for a while. then on Friday i was all about the game but had to work and she said she might watch it and i asked if she can keep me updated on the game and she said maybe and i gave her my number then I got a text form her wiht the score i thought it was one of my finreds and texted back and texted back no its ______ me: dint expect to be you, and expect late night drunk calls she:lol ok, i told you i will text you me: the current score (coz she i asked her when the current score is and she wasn't watching it) she: two smiley faces me: i have to ask you somehting but my batt is dying so i'll talk to you later she:have a good night and sundayi said hi, then she texted back hi and what i'm doing, texted her what i am doing and asked whats she's up to tomorrow she:__________ and beach wiht _________(guys name) me:kk wanted to know if you want to hang out maybe some other time she: ok sorry about that me: its k i'll be wiht few my finres so hopefully i'll be ok she:you'll be good lo me: what _________ and she texted me 2hrs later sry left my phone home ______ (what she was doing before beach ) she texted ma last i dindtn txt back sorry its a little messy but what does it look like here btw she's 18 i'm 20, ik the deal wiht the guy she siad its a frined, her stats is single shall i keep talking to her or let it go, if so how long should i wait before talking to her, and txt call or facebook if i still have a chance what should i do, what should i talk to her about, and i dont see her face to face till next semester hopefully thanks in advance
sagetalk Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Well, if you want to be her friend you're doing great. If you want her to want you physically, then you're not doing so great. I didn't understand the post completely, but I think she went to the beach with another guy? It sounds like she already has someone she's interested in and he's taking action. That's bad news for you. Do you want to wait in line for her (I hope not)? Even if you thought "heck yes!", change your answer to "No!". If she's hot then there is always gonna be guys going after her. You have to be one of those guys, but don't get needy. Show her interest, if she does not return it, then make a swift exit. Find girls that are into you. Send her a message saying you want to do something and you want her to come with you. If she says, "Um..." or "I don't like doing that", or "I'm sooooooo busy", then leave her alone. If you call her out on it, just bust her chops about it in a flirting way (not angry/mean). Saying, "Well, I guess your one of the few girls alive that don't like to have fun". If that goes nowhere, she's not into you. If she responds, "I do like having fun", you're in great shape and should be able to take it from there. If you don't do this, you'll be stuck as her friend and she'll tell you about the the guy at the beach and how much she likes having sex with him. Is that what you want? No? Good.
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