Yo-Yo Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Hey folks- It occurred to me that if LS were to have a big party, I think that there would be some life-long, and very healthy relationships started as a result of the users meeting each other...Seems that there are some great people on here... Anyway, you can read about the totally messed up mind games I've been going through here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t231074/ I've been talking to a friend (He's 25, and a very typical one at that...Young, dumb and full of...yeah)... He is a big fan of a book called "Double Your Dating" and it's basically an instruction on how to "win" the mind games and testing that an immature woman does...Basically, how to score at the clubs by being a better player than them.... He said to me last night that I could have saved things had I implemented more of the strategies from that book.... My question to you all is: Is something like that worth it? Is that really how it goes? It seems to me that it may be true that it may have worked (although I doubt it, she was such an extreme case), but I think that it would be better to simply walk through an open door, than to have to spend time picking the lock...I guess I'm just old fashioned, and think that any girl you have to "play" back is one that things will not last with in the medium to long-run... It just seems that this type of interaction is immature, and frankly, disrespectful of the other person's feelings, in that you are manipulating and being false to them... Thoughts? Thanks!
Green Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 I think you already know exactly what you need to do to get a girl at a club or where ever... its just that you let fear get in your way. When you want to talk to a girl ... talk to her and say what ever it is you want to say... when you want to touch a girl... touch her... don't be afraid to dance with her and run your hands all over her body... and finaly and most importantly when you want to kiss a girl... KISS her... never let there be a missed oportunity for a kiss. If you learn to enjoy yourself with women, and enjoy the women yourself then you have no more problem. Get rid of your expectations, get rid of the stress and just enjoy it all. 1
Author Yo-Yo Posted May 18, 2010 Author Posted May 18, 2010 (edited) Huh? My question was really about how you all feel about learning "tricks" to break through the psycho-barrier of head games and "push pull", versus not playing those games with those game-players at all....Please read that post I linked to to get a better context of what I'm asking....Love ya anyway, Green! I have no problem getting girls (both superficially and for more substantial relationships) but I'm a bit new to this "immature head-game" thing, and I was just asking weather people would A)play the games and WIN, or B)hold out for someone more real and caring towards the other person... Just clarifying...Thanks Edited May 18, 2010 by Yo-Yo
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