DadofTwoGirls Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Don't fly off the handle..but, don't those of you who have gone through or are currently going through a separation find it a little refreshing?...I mean deep down inside..maybe because it's been 3 mos for me or maybe not knowing the outcome or maybe because I know (at least in my marriage) I was stuck in a rut with no clue my wife was in the same rut..even though it sucks and the emotional rollercoaster is going full force every waking minute it was a change whether good or bad that was needed...IMHO...sorry if I offended anyone..that is farthest from my intention.
2sure Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Hmmm. Refreshing? Not yet, but your remarks make me hopeful. We are not final until august. I am having success making the changes on my life that I need to for myself and my daughter. Changed jobs, bought a house, moving to another city, schools. So, that makes me feel good..it was daunting, but now I have some good challenges to look forward to. I have a friend going through an awful ugly divorce. Hers is final soon. I am hopeful that as difficult the change will be for her that with the divorce over will at last mean OVER.
Author DadofTwoGirls Posted May 18, 2010 Author Posted May 18, 2010 I hear you...I am back to finishing college(on-line)...my girls are still my #1 priority...It seems like I'm starting to feel like the guy I used to be before falling into 'the rut' and not the guy I was turning into after 17yrs of mrriage...I hope the wife is going through the same thing or hoping this is how I would feel after time apart..but if not I really like myself (thinking positive,counting my blessings)...and will be alright.
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