immuvnon Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 about a month and half ago i left my wife didnt feel hapy. about a week afer that she met a guy and had been talking to him . i cam home and we made up and that nite she had sex with him, her exuse is i had been drinking and felt it was over,we cried and talked and decided we need to go to church and see if the lord can help us, for 11 years this woman didnt have much of a life outside of the family , she got her a dose of freedom, so that week we was happier than ever my god it felt soooooo god, th okay i have been with my wife for 11 years and we have has some rough times,been married 3 of them well last month i got sick of the lack of sex bickering and all theat crap, didnt feel happy so left for three weeks, a week after i left she started talking to a guy and i dint know so i was gone for aout 3 weeks and came home and we semi made up ,great sex , so she came home and told me she was going out with her gf and stuff i said okay, just to find out when she got home she slept with this guy and they both openly told me, en friday comes and we had a few words and bang she wants a devorce, i lost it when she got home begged pleaded fell to my knees, there was distance for the weekend , the next week wasnt to bad but there was stil distance and felt tension, so in the mean time she is talking to this guy, so i laid it down to her , you will not live under my roof and see another guy. so she droped him sent him a text and told him she was going to work on her family, just to find out a few days later they are still talking, but swares they have not seen one another, now i have talked to this guy and stuff and he actually seems like a decant guy, i am very observive on words and actions, he as well is going through what i am. anf he has told her and me he is stepping back and not going to cloud her judgemant out of respect for the both of us me as a father and her as a freind, but then she tells me he told her that, well next i know he is saying she wont talk to him so i am confusedm she said they muterly agrees to stop talking cause it was making things hard on her and he had alot going on as well. so then comesthis past fri i had been staying in a hotel and said i am going to my house screw this, well i gave her monwey to go out with her gf caouse shae has had a crazy week, comes home all fine and dandy , had a few wordsm but nothing to bad, sat comes and i take my kids to a festival and she hates the fact i am going on with out her, when we get home she has a bagged packed and says she is staying at her moms and dads and we had both agreed friday that was cool so she could get sone airm, wel midnight comes after she told me she wasnt going out just to find out she wasnt there. after she sadi she wassnt going out, i blew her phone up went nuts blew both there phones up never any answer till like 130 or so when she text'd me, told me she went out with her gf, that it wasnat planed and she was invited to go out at the last minute, but she had told her mom and dad at the resteurant ware she picked the key up at that she was going out with a friendm and tell me she said she told them she would go by herself if need be, i noticed that she had took her best purfume that she hardly wares bought new make up no real sexy cloths though, so that put me over the edge, get out if you cant respect me enough to ease my feelings than leave, so she has moved into her dads, so yesterday i tell her that all the stuff she bought me will be on the table if she wants to come and get it and i had been packing her stuff, i am done was my words to a t,,,, wehrn she got here she lost it seing i was done and taking steps to get over her,we talked and then got hit with same lines she had told me , i just need space to find myself , i told her a week ago i cheated as well and that pushed her over the edge, well a coulple weeks ago she wanted us to seperate and nit have sex outside one another while married and possibly dateing, but she would not commit to not seeing any other guys or sleep overs, i told her that if she is letting me go she is pushing me in another womans arms she said if thats what it takes than fine choking back tears, she wants her own place to figure out if she is still in love with me and if she want to try the man that she has now exoerienced for three weeks as a christian, she said she didnt have any money so i gave her money for lunch and took her and the kids to dinner, on the way home it was late and i offers to let our boys stay here and she could take our girl home, she stewed on it for a minute like she was wanting to take this chance to see him . she said thats fine not knowing that i had already told cecilie she couls stay tomarrow, s as we tuck them in she get mad cause i told cecilie tomarrow and the boys would dtay at mommies and cec could be here alone. she was furious cause she had to take the girl, her reaso was it is late and she needs a shower and she didnt want to disturb her dad, now u know i ;m thinking she had an oppertunity to see him and cec was spoiling it, but sence she has got home and stuff she has been as nice as can be, what body language sould i look for when she'd lieing and what are the sighns i'm now a fall back to her or whatever,
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