ALombard Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Yeah so what is new in my life in the last week? A lot. Lets see I finally got my chest piece finished, couldn't do that when I was with the ex because any money I had went to her. Also I just got P90X in the mail and so hopefully mid July I'll be in amazing shape. I must say that even with missing her and the bad days I have as time goes by I realize how much better it is to be away from her. I feel more free, like some weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I have been able to do things now without having make sure it was ok with her first. It's great. Now I have had some LC contact with her but I just don't feel it anymore. I miss her but all the pain I was feeling is leaving. When I think about her there isn't pain, just lonliness but that will pass. Thanks guys.
northstar1 Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Good man, keeping busy is key. If you can go NC, then it will make things even easier to move on. Best to sever all reminders and contact.
Author ALombard Posted May 18, 2010 Author Posted May 18, 2010 Yeah I'm trying. I did last week but she constantly bugged me with phone calls and texts and FB messages. So I gave in but I really don't see any reason to talk to her anymore, it's funny when I kinda stray and see her on FB I just get pissed off now. Not sad, just pissed, very hateful and angry.
northstar1 Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 I get it, but trust me it does prolong your feelings and healing. With an ex from a few years ago, we broke up and then had LC for a few months......a few emails every so often, the 'what have you been up to 'etc. It gave me a small sliver of hope, despite all other signs saying it was done and it pained me that she was seemingly so busy and happy. Eventually I had to stop it. Looking back, if I'd gone NC since day 1, I'd have likely healed much faster. Best to let it fade away.
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