Frontliner Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 And yet you can't get them out of your mind. You just don't know how to feel. How do you get over this feeling?
harmfulsweetz Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 I've been infatuated with someone I've never met before. But I have a tendency to regard those things as sort of like celebrity type crushes, you've never met them, probably never will, but it's all good to dream about them when you're bored, or your image of them.
brainygirl Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 I once met a person online and we got to chatting and emailing and it was like we shared interests and values and our days and the only thing missing was that we weren't in the same room and able to actually hug or touch each other. So he planned a visit over a long weekend. And then backed out at the last minute and broke contact with me. Never. Ever. Again. If I can't meet and talk to you in person I am not interested. Period.
Green Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 I'm sure a lot of posters on here feel that way about me... But I'm taken. Would you care to elaborate... have you fallen in love with some one you watch from afar at work, or some one on tv... is it some one in this forum or a person you chat online with?
Pfiend101 Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Yes, when I was younger Jenna Jameson and currently Megan Fox.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Falling in love with someone you've never met = falling in love with an idea.
alphamale Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 no i've never fallen in love with someone i haven't met
Rorschach Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 My first and only relationship began long distance. It was 5 months before I ever met her, and yeah I'd say I was in love with her before I ever met her in person.
carhill Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 no i've never fallen in love with someone i haven't met Indeed and agreed. Pressing flesh is vital, IME. Smells, sounds, tastes. An entire culinary experience
Twenty-ten Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Yes I have and it was over a period of several months corresponding with someone I met online who lived in a different country. He contacted me through hotmail at one point before MSNlivespace you could create a profile and I had a mini one that had my pic and the books I liked amongst other interests and he contacted me to make a comment on one of my books. We started an online connection that went over the span of 5 or so months and culminated in a fight because the tension was too high and the improbability of us meeting was becoming more and more distant adding to the sexual frustration. You can only communicate without touch for so long before it becomes extremely frustrating. Long story short we have become very good friends possibly for life and we share our lives over facebook and have videoed one another several times. If we were in the same country we would have been together but we never made it happen due to obligations and that was that. We confessed to each other recently that we had fallen for each other then. This was 5 yrs ago.
make me believe Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 How do you get over this feeling? Simple. Meet the person! Your perfect fantasy will meet reality and it's unlikely he/she will measure up to how you've built them in your mind.
tami-chan Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 And yet you can't get them out of your mind. You just don't know how to feel. How do you get over this feeling? Never ever listen to the song by Savage Garden " I knew I loved you before I met you".
quankanne Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 yep, four years old and in love with James Taylor – I blame my brother for that, though
Feelin Frisky Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 And yet you can't get them out of your mind. You just don't know how to feel. How do you get over this feeling? Idolizing someone from afar is something that can be good. I've had it happen a few times in my life and I learned things from other people that told me it would'nt be right to get involved. Still people are unique and certain looks just get under your skin afetr a while. I find it heart stirring even though I know there's eith no hope or no sense. I going for it. I did go for it once and she was very nice to talk to but when I asked her out to a concert, she din't have the nerve or consideration to decline. Instead she just stood me up and nad me sitting next to an empty seat. I then noticed her way of telling me to get lost was to start coming to work with monster hickies almost every day. She wasn't at all worth my affections and had no savoirfare in simply communicating her disinterest in me and her apparent deep involvement with some one else. She eventually changed my feelings from adulation to disgust. Not trying to get close--I asked her to a concert where she would meet me, not dinner or dancing or some ****. She could have just gone to the concert, thanked me and split. I'd take the hint, but no sheturned it into somwwhat of a painful saga. Still for that period before I asked her out I thought she walked on water and it would have been best to frame that feeling in my heart and left things alone.
BubbleFreak Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I'm sure a lot of posters on here feel that way about me... But I'm taken. Ahahahaa!!! Dammit, you took my line!
Citizen Erased Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Yes. And once we met it intensified. Apparently I'm just in the honeymoon phase (nothing like seeing the man you love 5 weeks out of a year to keep those lovey dovey rose tinted glasses on). I like to think of it more as the people that think that can kiss my little Aussie arse.
BubbleFreak Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Yes. And once we met it intensified. Apparently I'm just in the honeymoon phase (nothing like seeing the man you love 5 weeks out of a year to keep those lovey dovey rose tinted glasses on). I like to think of it more as the people that think that can kiss my little Aussie arse. Citizen Erased, you go out with Pyro yeah? I think I read that on a thread here somewhere about you two meeting on LS. I keep forgetting who is who, whether you are the girl or if Pyro is:P
Citizen Erased Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 Citizen Erased, you go out with Pyro yeah? I think I read that on a thread here somewhere about you two meeting on LS. I keep forgetting who is who, whether you are the girl or if Pyro is:P I'm the girl. Yes, we're together and we have known each through through LS for about 4 years.
BubbleFreak Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I'm the girl. Yes, we're together and we have known each through through LS for about 4 years. Easy way for me to remember is you have the upside down picture! To the OP, I wouldn't say I've fallen in love with anyone I haven't met in RL, but I have talked to someone on MSN for a long time and we became really close. Then he tried to track down where I lived and became too stalkerish so I got rid of him.
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