Marks Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Some of you may have seen my posts about this girl I've been going out with for almost two months now. The relationship has moved very slow, we've seen each other six or seven times during this time (have only gone out on the weekends, mainly because she's very busy during the week), and only have kissed on two occasions, both of which were not really long make-out sessions or anything. We're both in college btw. We went out again this past weekend, a casual date, nothing fancy. But after the date I get the feeling that she's lost interest in me romantically, maybe because I didn't make any moves on her/or something that I said that irked her. We get along fine, always have something to talk about. But I also don't get the feeling that she's really going out of her way to want to be with me, or trying to get more physical contact with me. Maybe I'm not agressive enough and she's waiting for something to happen, idk. In my last topic I posted, people said that she's just not into me. But I still have the hope that isn't the case. I feel like I may have missed an opportunity this past weekend to really cement the relationship, but I didn't get the feeling that she was making herself available to that. And now I might not see her for the next two or more weeks. This next weekend she has friends coming from out of town, which she told me about but didn't invite me to join her. I feel a little insulted that she didn't mention me coming along, since I've lived here way longer than she has, and I feel like I would have a pretty good idea of where to take her friends to have some fun. Then the next weekend after that she's probably going to go back to her hometown, since she always seems to do so for holidays. So have I been friendzoned? And if I haven't yet, but am going in that direction, what do I do to not be friendzoned? Should I contact her this week and try to invite myself to her plans with her friends, and see how she reacts? Sorry if this is all a little scatter brained, I'm trying to summarize this as best as I can .
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