bluz73 Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 So Big question to anybody willing to disect this mans character for me. So I know what not to forget when its time to date again. 6 + years Leaves a goodlooking,devoted woman with class, job, car, house... for a teenager 12 years his junior with no car, no house, no money still learning things in life. Within the first month adds her to his car insurance, moves her in his parents place after month 2, calls her his fiance? says he loves her within weeks and they pick out baby names. Only thing he can offer her is a new car, and sex at the moment, he still has a crappy job and still in college PT after 5 years and addicted to methadone for 6. But she clinged to him like he's a superstar like I did when she barely knew him. Has he lost his mind? I know Its been 6 months since my heart was shredded. But As I sit here tonight thinking about what happened it made me realize that it was'nt my fault at all(which he admitted) It was his own issues that led him in the wrong direction. I don't miss him, I care for him, but no longer desire him after what he done. I just am still sick of the thought of him with her that disturbs me, maybe cause I am lonely and broken. Or that she is sleeping in the bed we shared and living with him day to day with what once was our furniture UGH..I got to get over this! I just need to know What exact kind of man in general does this? Anyone feel free to define it because Im still confused
EnigmasMuse Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 He is probably insecure about aging, so he goes for someone younger which represents youth to make him feel better about himself. And probably has to do with control. The younger the better the more likely he is able to mold or shape her the way HE wants, because of her lack of experience etc. You're better off without him.
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