helgaisbroken Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 How long is the healing process? Hi I'm not sure if you people remember me from last time. This is a short update of what's been happening 4 days ago. If you want further reference to my last post it's http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t225036/ I'm really new to all this rebuilding trust process and it's the first time I've ever cheat on a boyfriend. 4 days ago, he decided to get back with me. Everything seems alright so far and there hasn't been one word about my cheating. However, do I still have to provide him my email and ims or not until he tells me? Ever since getting back, he's not talking about it. Or should I go along and say nothing till he states something about it?
Dexter Morgan Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 I'm really new to all this rebuilding trust process and it's the first time I've ever cheat on a boyfriend. 4 days ago, he decided to get back with me. Everything seems alright so far and there hasn't been one word about my cheating. there will be. and don't get pissed off at him if he brings it up. You are responsible. you don't get to screw him over, then expect him to just "get over it". I'm not saying you would do this, just understand if it comes up and if he gets angry from time to time. betrayal takes a while to get over(if they can in fact get over it). However, do I still have to provide him my email and ims or not until he tells me? only if you care about him and want to prove that you are doing nothing wrong any longer. unless that is you have something to hide. If you have nothing to hide, whats the problem? Ever since getting back, he's not talking about it. Or should I go along and say nothing till he states something about it? you let him bring it up if he wants to talk about it. and if you want to right your wrong, then you give him full disclosure until he says he doesn't need it any longer. if you aren't willing to do that, then just break up with him so he can find someone he doesn't feel the need to check up on for a while.
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