GFORCE Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 My wife and I separated a month ago. I dont know where she lives in this city. Its a separation for us to work on issues. Not for a divorce. She was in our old city this weekend and got some stuff from storage that she thought id need like beddings etc. I didnt ask her to bring the beddings, that was her own thoughtful thought, but she did call me over the weekend asking if i wanted my fish tanks etc and i said yes. Today she text me as she is back in town. She wants to meet so she can give me the stuff. She suggested she could bring it to where i live as she has the truck and i have the small car and it might not all fit in my car. Remember i dont know where she lives. Then i said what time. She text back saying that come to think of it i could squeeze the stuff in my car if we met somwehere but ITS ALL UP TO ME what i want ( as in her bringing it to my place or us meeting somewhere) Since we separated( her idea and her mof the hotel we were staying in for a month in this new city) she has been a lil more cordial. Im a readint ot much into this or wheat? Is she just being caring? or what. i need answers family? Thank you
Enema Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 Probably reading too much into it. It could be completely the opposite: She's feeling guilty about her new man and is going to do you a favour to assuage it. You don't know where your wife lives. Say that again with me. You don't know where your wife lives. ps. Strong join date to post ratio!
carhill Posted May 18, 2010 Posted May 18, 2010 IMO, it's stuff. She offered to deliver it. Just have her leave it on the porch. She knows where you live. Stbx and I have been doing that with miscellaneous stuff during the divorce process and it works really well. Nobody bothers it. I don't even check to see if she's home. Dump and go. I do admire my handiwork, since I fixed up her house.
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