Entitled Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Today I woke up, and did my usual, check the email. I was stunned at first, but right at the top, was her name. I got a bit nervous and opened it up. Here is what she wrote: "Happy belated. It makes me sad I wasn't there. I do miss you. But this is way beyond repair. I just need to get this out of my system. I still love you. So. ****ing. Much. I'm thinking about you all the time and remembering the good, and the bad. Like I said though, this is something we can't fix. It's gone too far. Between the voicemail, the phonecall, and the fact I'm with someone else. So I guess I just wanted to say goodbye... I do wish you the best. I hope you make good choices and maybe one day we will be friends. Losing you has left me with a hole inside of me. I love you and miss you -------- ------. I'm sorry for the way things have turned out. - A--" Is she just trying to make me feel bad? I got pretty pissed off after I read the " I'm with someone else". Why would she even bother emailing me if she is the one who left me for this guy?? Should I even reply?
nomad0792 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Wow! That is quite an email. I would venture to say the majority will tell you to NOT send anything. She's so contradictory in her statements and I'm not sure of her intentions, but I'm not sure what good it would do to send something back. How long has it been since you last spoke to her?
teanoranges Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 This makes me sad. I can't believe people would go this far! I mean, she's in another relationship... messing up his head too because she obviously still loves you so she can't be altogether great with him... and yet she sends this to mess with your head. She is craving some major attention. Just let it go. You'll feel so much better knowing this than sending something in reply and getting the old 'just friends' straight from there.
Author Entitled Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 Wow! That is quite an email. I would venture to say the majority will tell you to NOT send anything. She's so contradictory in her statements and I'm not sure of her intentions, but I'm not sure what good it would do to send something back. How long has it been since you last spoke to her? I'm very tempted to, I know it's stupid, but just to let her know what she did. But it probably won't do me any good. One week. This makes me sad. I can't believe people would go this far! I mean, she's in another relationship... messing up his head too because she obviously still loves you so she can't be altogether great with him... and yet she sends this to mess with your head. She is craving some major attention. Just let it go. You'll feel so much better knowing this than sending something in reply and getting the old 'just friends' straight from there. Ya, that would be the best route to go. I just don't understand why she would do this, I was doing fine, now I'm a bit upset...
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