JACQUE33 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 i have been dating this guy for 2 months. things have always been good between us. we talk all the time. we were supposed to hang out on saturday, he said he could not and would make it up to me. this was on friday. i have not heard from him since. is this his way of being a coward and telling me he is not interested in me
Philetus Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 It sure could be. In the last few days or couple of weeks, was there a change in his behaviour? Like, was he a bit more distant, didn't return calls quickly, maybe got cagey if you asked what he'd been up to? He also could have met someone else and is afraid to tell you.
Engadget Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Women throw around "player" too much. I've been called a player so many times, and I'm really not. I may talk to a bunch of different girls, and even flirt with them but unless I'm having sex with them all, I'm not a player.
DustySaltus Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Ask him why he couldn't make it this past weekend, gauge his response and make a decision based upon his track record. He could be a coward, but call him on his bs...
Author JACQUE33 Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 HIS behavior is the same. i tested him this morning good morning, he responded and asked how i was. i feel like i threw he ball in his court and if he wants to continue seeing me, its up to his discretion. he can call me now. is this what i should do.
deebeechrisyo Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Women throw around "player" too much. I've been called a player so many times, and I'm really not. I may talk to a bunch of different girls, and even flirt with them but unless I'm having sex with them all, I'm not a player. That's nothing. Here in Alaska, women assume I'm gay if I don't hit on them. They think there is something wrong with a guy if he doesn't show interest in them. I think they just like to throw around labels.
Disciple of Mystery Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 the symptoms are reason for a possibility BUT until you actually talk to him, you have nothing to go by. also to keep in mind, did he agree to be exclusive with you? Because "hanging out" with him could just mean you are only friends with him, in turn he is still single and can talk to any one he wants to and enter into any activity without your consent. due to the fact you have only been dating him for just 2 months, this can go anywhere (that also includes you changing your mind instead of him changing his mind). this is the dating stage, remember that. You never mentioned that he IS your BF (except you are wanting us to assume he is your BF). you can be an obsessive stalker for all i know. but like what i said earlier, talk to him before you assume the worst and maybe he lost his phone. it happened to me once and it was embarrassing for me cuz i had to borrow another cell phone (my mother's) to let the GF know what was going on. i was able to contact her on the 2nd day without my cell. OH, and did i mention "talk to him" and dont end up being the fool with accusations?
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