valleylux Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 I'm 27 years old and in my first serious long term relationship. I've loved before, but these were often painful experiences. I really love my current boyfriend. He's great and the problems we have are either common or small. However, I'm experiencing some weird emotions here. I've had several personal tragedies lately. He's been supportive but I'm worried my mood/my life is affecting our relationship. My temper is short with him, I find myself overreacting when I feel I'm suffering the slightest injustice, and I'm constantly angry at him for some little thing. I wrestle with the urge to act coldly toward him as revenge for these little things. We've been together eight months and we're settling in with each other, he's more comfortable around me, less censored, and though he shows me affection every day, it's slightly changed from when we first met, and I'm always feeling shorted as if it's not enough. And it SHOULD be enough. I honestly feel as if I'm sabotaging this. I can't seem to let go of the small things and just let myself be happy. Please, advice?
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