Jump to content

I am shy, do i make a move?


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

Please bear with me, while I tell the whole story, it wont make sense otherwise lol. About 4 months ago, my friend started hanging out at this place. A month ago, I started hanging out there too. There is this cute guy, who I like that has been working there since she starting going there. Anyways, she told him a month ago that I thought he was really cute. He was flattered and he even said he would go out with me. Last week I had my friend invite him out with us, but he had to work late so he couldnt. So this weekend there was me, my friend, and this other girl who he knows has no interest in him. Anyways, when i was at the other end of the bar, she asked him for his number and that were going out and asked if he had plans. He gave my friend his number for us to text when we go out. He wasnt able to make it though so i was bummed. I had asked him the day before if he has facebook, he said yes I am on (the bartenders name) facebook. I just dont want him to think that my friend likes him so I am thinking maybe I should start by adding him to my facebook?? my other friend added the bartender so he had to have seen that she added her because added her-maybe out of guilt for not showing up i dont know. But I am thinking okay, if I dont make a move, nothing is going to happen. I dont know if he likes me or not, but how will i know if i dont try. I just dont want to look like a stalker!

 

I could have sworn that I saw him staring at me alot when i was at his work, and when i touched his arm, he touched his finger to the underside of my hand. What do you think? I know that I dont know him too well, but i'm not going to get to know him by letting my friends do all the dirty work.

×
×
  • Create New...