piroangel2110 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 So here's my problem: When I first started my former job I started falling for a co-worker, Mark. We never dated or messed around sexually, but we were constant flirts and became very close friends. It was obvious that there was definitely some chemistry. However, the more I was around him and hung out with him his best friend Weston became a part of the picture. So Weston and I began talking. Initially the only reason I began talking to him was to see if there was any sort of reaction from Mark. (shallow I know) But the more I talked to Weston the more and more I fell in love with him. As soon as we began dating, Mark started dating another girl he had been talking too. We were all still very good friends, and Weston and I have been together for a little over a year now, but my feelings for Mark never went away. Now here comes the problem. Weston and I have been having problems in the bedroom all of the sudden, and I have been secretly consulting with Mark about it. At first it was strictly Mark trying to help, like he has in the past, but now he is also having trouble with his girl friend and we are both very sexually frusturated. So now the more and more Mark and I talk to each other the flirting has gotten much worse then before and it is becoming sexual. So what do I do? Do I break it off with Weston who I do love, to persue what I have fantasized about with Mark? Or do I cut off a friendship with Mark and stay in a relationship that I'm not physically satisfied with? PLEASE HELP!
jthorne Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 I hope you have used anonymous names for Weston and Mark. Otherwise, they might not appreciate being posted about on an open internet forum. And why did you choose to put this in the OW forum, just out of curiosity? Are you considering having an affair? Not saying it's in the wrong place, just curious why you chose to put it here instead of the infidelity, cheating/flirting or dating forums. Welcome to LS btw.
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