Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 I would tell her that friendship is ok with you but you will be looking for other girls to date and if she knows any you would appreciate it. If she accepts this then she isn't that into you.
marsle85 Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 What really stumped me was when I asked her about all this and she says that she doesn't really date people she doesn't know. She has a friendship with them first and if anything develops, then she would date but, with people she barely knows, she wouldn't date. This is not, and could not be true... If so, she's going to have an uneventful and nonexistent love life.
Author counterman Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 Yep, I will tell her that. But, I doubt she'll actually introduce me to any of her female friends. I think she may be a bit iffy about it. That's the thing. I asked my girl friends about this and the majority of them prefer to date people they've been friends with first. From what I heard from a friend of this girl, it is true. She does only date friends. She has heaps of guy friends as well. In the end, I don't think she was that interested in me but was going to put in the category of potential suitors for the future. I will not be one of those guys. I prefer to give my attention to someone who does deserve it.
Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Posted May 19, 2010 You can date as friends, with the option for more, but there must be some kind of romance ( kissing, holding hands, etc. ) while finding out about someone!! ( otherwise you really are not attracted but just friends )
Author counterman Posted May 19, 2010 Author Posted May 19, 2010 I agree. There must be some sort of romance, some sort of intimacy. Now, I know I'll be seeing her next week. What should I say or do?
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