Nantes Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 So I went on a first date last night with a guy. it seemed to go well, we got along and had a nice dinner that he insisted on paying for. There was talk of meeting again but nothing concrete. Now, should I send him a little email to thank him for dinner? I think it was rather expensive. Something like this: Hi X, Thanks again for taking me to dinner last night, the food was delicious. It was fun getting to know you a little better, and nice to find out we share taste in X. Let me know if you'd like to get together again sometime.
Pfiend101 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 I think a text would be better. Short and sweet like " Hey X I thanks for a great time last night ;)"
marsle85 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 yeah, if you're going to do anything- text him a QUICK message. Don't tell him the food was delicious, and that you're glad you're both interested in otters. It matters less of what you say, and more that you're contacting him.
Author Nantes Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 Hmmm....I'm not sure he's much of a texter. Our contact has been via email, except for a phone call to set up the date.
Pfiend101 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 As a guy I would like the email however I would definitely like the short text much more. It shows me your interested and I would definitely flirt back and ask you on a second date. The text is more direct.
tkgirl Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 So I went on a first date last night with a guy. it seemed to go well, we got along and had a nice dinner that he insisted on paying for. There was talk of meeting again but nothing concrete. Now, should I send him a little email to thank him for dinner? I think it was rather expensive. Something like this: Hi X, Thanks again for taking me to dinner last night, the food was delicious. It was fun getting to know you a little better, and nice to find out we share taste in X. Let me know if you'd like to get together again sometime. I think a casual text saying thanks and that you had a great time is ok.. but definitely leave out the last part.. about him letting know if he'd like to get together again.. yeah, please don't say that part! could come off as a little desperate... IMHO!
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