Heatemyheart89 Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 My ex has finally gone and It makes me feel so ashamed of myself that I bothered with someone who didnt want me. We split months ago but I just wouldnt let it go I really loved him. Im so gutted he doesnt want to know me anymore. Sorry this sounds pathetic had to let it out!
skydiveaddict Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 (edited) You are not pathetic. You're just going thru the healing process. It hurts like hell I know, but you will get over this, it just takes time and you will find someone better. Edited May 15, 2010 by skydiveaddict
hurtandheartbroken Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I know it hurts, especially since with him blocking you, it feels like he's abandoned you...but you will be ok in time. what you feel is perfectly normal. Now that he's closed the door, it's for the best since you have no excuse to hinder the healing and learning to live life without him.
GrayClouds Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 You do not feel it at the moment but it is the kindest thing he could do because you need to focus on yourself and let him go so you can heal. It hurts, allow yourself to cry and say good by to the realtionship. Then it is time to work on healing. You will get there.
bluz73 Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 My ex has finally gone and It makes me feel so ashamed of myself that I bothered with someone who didnt want me. We split months ago but I just wouldnt let it go I really loved him. Im so gutted he doesnt want to know me anymore. Sorry this sounds pathetic had to let it out! I feel your pain, My ex did the same thing, He didnt leave me behind cause of me it was for someone else, i didnt do anything remotely wrong, but he cut me out of his life, emails/cell phone just to start a new relationship....and to this day thepain aches in my heart and its been 6 months. I am not sure how long I will feel like this but knowing he gave up 5 years so easily and never looked back caused me such distrust in men and lowered my self esteem beyond repair right now. Please come to LS and we will help you get through. This site has helped me more then any therapist could. I hope you know you are worth so much more and you will get through this. Thats what I tell myself.
Ilovecake Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 I feel for you but at the same time people have been advising you for weeks to leave your ex alone and you just kept pushing. He was probably pretty freaked out, I have a feeling he really had no other choice. Now you have no choice but to start getting over it, which is a good thing. Give it some time and you'll be glad he did you this favor.
Carolyn Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 Sounds like you left him no option, but to do what he did.
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