pinkroses Posted January 24, 2004 Posted January 24, 2004 I just gave my boyfriend a break-up letter (taped it to his door). He's been treating me awful for the last month. He was wonderful to me on my birthday the early part of the month then suddenly overnight I have hardly talked to him and haven't seen him at all and I'm being brushed off. Over time he's let down more and more in showing that he cares at all, and I have put up with and forgiven way more than I should have. I know this had to be done, but even though you do the right thing it still makes you feel horrible inside. I'm so bitter and angry right now I just don't know what to do with myself. I just had to get on here and vent myself a little. I just want to say life is awful and I hate relationships. Every guy starts out nice, sometimes really nice, but they always end up being nasty, mean, neglectful, and don't want to be involved anymore. None of them are worth knowing!!! I have wanted to get remarried for eight years now but all there are out there are abusive, mentally crazy and heartless sons of beeches.
DENTALASSISTANT Posted January 24, 2004 Posted January 24, 2004 There are a lot of fish in the sea..if you are not happy..move on! Life is way to short to be unhappy. Go out have fun..meet someone new!!
Hayley2004 Posted January 24, 2004 Posted January 24, 2004 Originally posted by pinkroses Over time he's let down more and more in showing that he cares at all, and I have put up with and forgiven way more than I should have. I know this had to be done, but even though you do the right thing it still makes you feel horrible inside. I'm so bitter and angry right now I just don't know what to do with myself. I just had to get on here and vent myself a little. I just want to say life is awful and I hate relationships. Every guy starts out nice, sometimes really nice, but they always end up being nasty, mean, neglectful, and don't want to be involved anymore. None of them are worth knowing!!! Awe, well I know how you feel , I was in the same situation last year with an abusive alcoholic ex boyfriend. I finished him in May and it was the best thing I've ever done. But it does feel horrible at the time, because it's like.. 'what do i do now?' and it's quite a sad time for a couple of days. But don't worry, not ALL men are like that, you've just not found the right one for you yet... Chin up and when you look back just pity him... Hayley x
Vivid_29 Posted January 25, 2004 Posted January 25, 2004 Why didn't you tell him in person? Have you heard from him yet? Is he a liar and a cheater? ~V
BklynGuy Posted January 25, 2004 Posted January 25, 2004 Why do women avoid telling guys they are going to break up face to face? Is this just the easy way out? Sometimes the end of a relationship is the best thing ever although it doesn't seem that way @ the time.
Vivid_29 Posted January 25, 2004 Posted January 25, 2004 Originally posted by BklynGuy Why do women avoid telling guys they are going to break up face to face? Is this just the easy way out? Sometimes the end of a relationship is the best thing ever although it doesn't seem that way @ the time. Read Moimeme's post - It makes a lot of sense as to why -- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t31499/15-2 ~V
Author pinkroses Posted January 25, 2004 Author Posted January 25, 2004 BECAUSE THE ASS WON'T CALL ME OR SEE ME!!! On that same token, why doesn't he tell me to my face why he is avoiding me?? It works both ways. At least I had the guts to say something at all. Guys have a clever way of becoming scarce when they are having relationship fears or playing the jerk and don't want to be discovered. My bf was not lying or cheating, as far as I know, I think he's just avoiding me as a pattern of his immature, commitmentphobic personality. He is a very insecure person and he can't handle too much happiness. He keeps being busy and I have not been able to see him.
JNasty Posted January 26, 2004 Posted January 26, 2004 FYI - for those in simular situations, there are services out there that do the breaking-up for you. Look into http://www.dumpmonkey.com - they do the dirty work for you! What a great idea.
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