callofduty4455 Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 i'm almost 20 and i've never kissed a girl before, let alone been on a date. i ran into a cute girl i kind of knew in high school at a bar, gave her my number and then a few days later she asked me out for a drink. we've gone on two really good dates, we get along well and have a lot in common. this is kind of a big deal because in high school i was always shy and didn't have a lot of friends, i never really talked to any girls or anything. talking with her is really easy and the dates are never awkward. last night after the second date when I was walking her to the door of her apartment building i asked her out for a third date (a movie) and she said yes. then she went in for a kiss, i panicked and turned it into a really awkward hug. she just kind of said bye and went into her building. now i'm afraid she's mad about it, it was really awkward and uncomfortable. i feel bad because i don't want her to think i didn't want to kiss her, u just freaked out and didn't really know what to do. should i talk to her about it or just forget it happened and act like normal? our next date isn't for a few days and i'm nervous to text her or anything now.
Author callofduty4455 Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 just bumping, i really need help loL!
zebracolors Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Normally I wold say you did give a signal that says you didn't want or were not ready for a kiss yet. Since she was the one who initiated, she may have been puzzled, perhaps a little disappointed. However since it maybe seemed like were going to accept it at first, maybe she realized you did panic. Now when you feel the courage to text her again, and you should before the date, so she knows you're still interested, don't bring it up. (I think if she brings it up, then it might have been something that was a huge deal for her, and you'd have to just go from there) Or I wouldn't were it me. If you still show her your interested, the next date will happen and you'll get another chance to let her kiss you or maybe you make the move;) Us women sometimes have hard enough time as is, mustering up the courage to make the first move, as usually its the guy who does it.
WTRanger Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Lay low, then really plant one on her at the end of your next date. Don't freak out this time! You have the advantage of knowing she's at least interested in kissing. So just go for it. Don't plan, don't think, just act. Believe me, you'll know what to do. Thinking about it, that just screws things up/
Author callofduty4455 Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 thanks guys, i really appreciate it!
Author callofduty4455 Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 she actually called to make sure i still wanted to go out and i just told her i was sorry about how awkward it was, she said it was fine and she figured i was just nervous. she seemed really nice about it and told me she was looking forward to our next date, so i guess things kind of fixed themselves, all that worry for nothing.
Kaplan Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I'm sure she knew you were just shy. After all, she probably initiated the kiss because she knew you were too shy to do it.
marsle85 Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Just plant one on her when you see her next. Very first thing you do. Make it your plan going in so you don't lose your courage. Plus, it will be cake from there.
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