MissJoness Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 fall in love. recently my uncle's wife discovered that he fathered a child by another woman. The woman called her and said "tell your husband to come and get his baby" The wife was upset, stressed out and somehow discovered he left one of his cell phones behind while he was out. She browsed through it and discovered several pornographic pictures of him doing all types of sexuals acts with multiple women. She ended up having a heart attack from the shock and is still in the hopsital. Seeing those pictures hurt her worse than discovering he had a child by another woman. She is in her 40s by the way I talked to my mother about this and she just says "well men make mistakes. he didn't hurt anybody. and they may work it out and she might forgive him" I dont see how this type of behavior is even forgiveable. Its beyond that. Recently I've talked to several woman who have told me straight up that "a man is going to cheat. that's what they do. if you can't deal with that then dont get married" I always wanted to fall in love and get married but I am just disgusted and hurt by how men who cheat are so justified. Every woman I met have justified this behavior and told me that I shouldn't get married if I expect a man to be faithful to me. I would hate to get married, have children, and be at home while my husband is out having all the fun giving into temptation and philandering with different women. I"d be so angry and miserable. I'd hate to waste what's left of my youth or my life with this sad reality. I used to not think much of people involved in extra marital affairs but after what happened to my uncle's wife it really opened my eyes about how much this type of behavior can hurt somebody. Geesh
Bejita463 Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I talked to my mother about this and she just says "well men make mistakes. he didn't hurt anybody. and they may work it out and she might forgive him" I dont see how this type of behavior is even forgiveable. Its beyond that. Recently I've talked to several woman who have told me straight up that "a man is going to cheat. that's what they do. if you can't deal with that then dont get married" You have some people in your life that badly require some therapy.
hats Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 The woman had a heart attack and your mom says he didn't hurt anybody? Somehow I doubt they'll work it out...
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