DreamerGirl27 Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I am about at my wits end! lol I am trying to talk to more of my guy friends, but they don't even give me the time of day! I have ONE guy that talks to me and spends A LOT of time talking to me and he's the one that I like who has told me he doesn't like me back! So, I tried talking to this other guy friend just now and he spent maybe 5 min. talking to me and then was like, "I gotta go" so I am just like, "Okay, bye." I like getting into meaningful, long conversations with people, guys or girls, but it's like the ONLY guy that even cares to do that is the one that I like that supposedly doesn't like me back. It only makes me like him more! 'Cause he really listens to me and acts like he cares. My other guy friends also don't initiate the conversations. I have to make the attempt to talk to them. This one guy said "I'll IM you tomorrow if you're on." Well, we were both on and he never did. How do I get over the only guy that talks to me that I just so happen to like when none of my other male friends are willing to spend an ounce of time on me? The guy friend who does talk to me talks about really personal stuff, too...we have talked about sexual stuff. Nothing too in depth...yet.... and he doesn't like me. It doesn't make one bit of sense! I just want a guy that is willing to spend some time on me.
BubbleFreak Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 How are they your friends when they don't even want to talk to you, or keep their promise to talk to you later? Sounds pretty one way to me, like you are putting in all the effort. I remember you from other threads you've made. You will find a guy, definitely not that one guy friend who does talk to you though. Time will help you get over him. It would also help if you took the energy you use thinking about him and focus it on something more interesting in your life. Eventually you'll meet someone new, maybe when you least expect it.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 If I can't have the only one that puts in an effort to talk to me, then I don't want anyone. Unless some other guy comes along and talks to me just as much and is just as cute and has everything I'm looking for like this one does.
Alex5535 Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 (edited) Change your friends, go to an SDA church, you'll make plenty of friends who will listen to you guaranteed! Edited May 16, 2010 by Alex5535
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 I have no idea what an SDA church is. I already go to a church.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 I don't believe that. Guys and girls haven't changed much over the years. Girls just get payed more at work and can vote. Guys are still the "chasers/pursuers/hunters" etc. and girls still sit there and look pretty while they are being pursued and have babies. I won't put a move on a guy. I already went overboard by telling this guy I like him. I will never do that again.
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