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Bad bf? Should i leave?

princess21

By princess21
in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy

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HMM... OK SO I DO I BEGIN?.. WELL I HAVE BEEN WITH MY CURRENT BF FOR ALMOST 4 YRS. IT HAS BEEN VERY ROCKY FROMTHE BEGINING. WE HAVE A 2 YR OLD CHILD AND I FEEL THAT I STAY MOSTLY FOR HER.. WELL WE TOOK A LONG BREAK I MOVED OUT A WHOLE CUSTODY BATTLE STARTED I WON OF COURSE... ON TO THE POINT. WHILE ON OUR SO CALLED "BREAK" I MET LOTS OF GUYS I SAY 2 OF THEM I STILL TALK TO ONE OF THE GUYS IS WAY OLDER THAN ME SOME WHAT OF A LADYS MAN. WELL I HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR AWHILE NOW AND I TALK TO HIM EVERYDAY I THINK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME I EVEN TELL HIM I LOVE HIM. MY BF DOESNT KNOWABOUT THIS OF COURSE. I JUST DONT KNOW IF I WANT TO BE WITH MY BOYFRIEND ANYMORE WE NEVER SPEND TIME TOGETHER HE IS EXTREMELY MEAN TO ME UNLESS WE R AROUND PPL HE PUTS ON THIS ACT OR SOMETHING. HE NEVER WANTS TO GO OUT ALL HE WANTS IS TO PLAY VIDEO GAMES ITS REALLY BAD I AM THE TYPE OF GIRL THAT LOVES GAMES BUT CANT DO IT 24/7. I WILL EVEN TRY TO TAKE THE CONTROLLER OUT OF HIS HAND ANDHE GETS REALLY MAD TOTHE POINT WHERE HE HITS ME. I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE. I THINK THIS IS THE REASON I TALK TO THIS OTHER GUY HE IS COMPLETE OPP. OF MY BF. AND I HAVE VERY STRONG FEELINGS FOR HIM. I JUST DONT KNOW IF ITS MY ANGER TOWARDS MY BF. OR IF I REALLY SHOOULD LEAVE. IM SO CONFUSED. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE?? :sick: OH AND I FORGOT TO MENTION HE HAS CHATED ON ME LOTSSS OF TIMES AND I FEEL LIKE HE IS DOING IT NOW I CANT GET HIM TO ADMIT IT BUT MY GUT IS TELLING ME OTHERWISE..

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Sazerac Established Member

Sazerac

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Ok, first of all, when you post, please use lowercase and not all bold. Otherwise it looks as if you are shouting.

 

On to your question: if your bf hits you, demeans you, and treats you like crap, what do you do? You leave him, of course. And you need to leave him before you start anything serious with this other guy. But you do need to leave him; no one deserves being treated the way you are being treated.

 

You may want to make sure this other guy is as good as he appears, and that he's not just good at "putting on an act in public" like your current bf does.

norajane Established Member

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Yes, it's time to move on from your bf.

 

And don't be so sure about the ladies' man. You may be getting rid of one ass only to replace with him with another ass. Ladies' man is just that - someone who goes all out to get a woman, and then drops her for another.

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Reality Drip

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A) he hits you so leave him

B) he spends too much time playing video games and not enough time being a provider and a real man

C) he cheats on you to top this all off

D) you're not being completely open with him; there's no relationship left here.

 

Be happy with your new guy.

 

-Max

Dexter Morgan Established Member

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Yes, he is a bad bf.....so why lower yourself to his level and become a two timer?

 

leave him and find someone you are in tune with.

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