Anna S Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I was on a second date with a guy. He took me out to dinner but he didn't even try for a kiss. Why are guys such wusses? He spent $80 but an arm touch and hug is not romantic. He's done for. I want a real man. Where are they?
Engadget Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Maybe you didn't make it clear you wanted him to kiss you. I wouldn't blame him.
Green Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Maybe you didn't make it clear you wanted him to kiss you. I wouldn't blame him. I would blame him... for an $80 meal I would have been touching her leg at the table and, for freaking sure I would go for a kiss, heck I would go for a make out. This guy is a real loser to not even try.
Engadget Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I would blame him... for an $80 meal I would have been touching her leg at the table and, for freaking sure I would go for a kiss, heck I would go for a make out. This guy is a real loser to not even try. Her attitude tells me not many people want to kiss her.
D-Lish Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Her attitude tells me not many people want to kiss her. Agree with you on this.
Engadget Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Also, maybe he realized halfway through dinner that he didn't like you? That's a possibility too.
Green Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Also, maybe he realized halfway through dinner that he didn't like you? That's a possibility too. If he asks her out again, heck if he even calls her then you are wrong and she is right. Seriosly this was a second date... there is no excuse for not trying for a kiss after even the first date or date like situation
Author Anna S Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 I would blame him... for an $80 meal I would have been touching her leg at the table and, for freaking sure I would go for a kiss, heck I would go for a make out. This guy is a real loser to not even try. He just texted me begging for a third date. He is a wussy. He has no idea why I broke it off. Hello.
Author Anna S Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 If he asks her out again, heck if he even calls her then you are wrong and she is right. Seriosly this was a second date... there is no excuse for not trying for a kiss after even the first date or date like situation Thank you. You are more of a MAN than my date.
D-Lish Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 He just texted me begging for a third date. He is a wussy. He has no idea why I broke it off. Hello. Then move on to the next- no biggie.
CLC2008 Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Not kissing someone on a 2nd date, does not equal a wuss. I think you're making a big deal over it.
Toki Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Sounds like he dodged a bullet. Couldn't agree more. On the other hand he could've gotten a hand-job, or chlamydia...
Engadget Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 If he asks her out again, heck if he even calls her then you are wrong and she is right. Seriosly this was a second date... there is no excuse for not trying for a kiss after even the first date or date like situation There are plenty of reasons, sorry. Miss Anna here could be making things up as well, sorry. It is the internet, where truth is at a premium.
harmfulsweetz Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Where are the real men out there? Do they exist? The ones who grab you into a huge kiss, ahh...I'm sure they aren't real. Sorry. If you wanted a kiss, why didn't you make a move for one? Why does the guy have to do it? I think he was being a gentleman, and you're judging far too harshly for it.
Rittenhouse Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 He DEFINITELY dodged a bullet. Every woman has her own set of rules. Some would have been horrified if he HAD gone for the kiss on the 2d date. If you're jumping to conclusions about him based on 2 dates, and breaking things off without bothering to tell him why, you're not much of a prize.
385 Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 Sounds like he dodged a bullet. Haha, seriously. Girls aren't allowed to be this demanding.
skydiveaddict Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 He's done for. I want a real man. Where are they? We are skydiving!
Ruby Slippers Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 Do they exist? The ones who grab you into a huge kiss, ahh...I'm sure they aren't real. *sigh*, my ex. Our first kiss was boiling hot. He gave me a hint it was coming so I could get ready, then he just grabbed me and laid it on me like woah. I really did get weak in the knees.
Green Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 Where are the real men out there? Do they exist? The ones who grab you into a huge kiss, ahh...I'm sure they aren't real. Sorry. If you wanted a kiss, why didn't you make a move for one? Why does the guy have to do it? I think he was being a gentleman, and you're judging far too harshly for it. Yes real men exist and we kiss girls or atleast try to on the first date. The man was a wuss who wanted a kiss but didn't try because he was afraid. He DEFINITELY dodged a bullet. Every woman has her own set of rules. Some would have been horrified if he HAD gone for the kiss on the 2d date. If you're jumping to conclusions about him based on 2 dates, and breaking things off without bothering to tell him why, you're not much of a prize. He didn't dodge anything, he is still trying to ask her out for another date. If anything a bullet dodged him and his lame attempt.
Chicago_Guy Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 He just texted me begging for a third date. He is a wussy. He has no idea why I broke it off. Hello. This guy is probably inexperienced with dating - there are far worse things to be. If he's a decent guy, he'll eventually find a good woman who is a better match for him than you would have been.
somedude81 Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 Anybody who spends $80 on a date and doesn't go for a kiss is an idiot. First off, that's way too much to spend on a second date. And second, it's the second date. I'd try to go for a kiss even if she bought me a Big Mac.
SomewhatExperienced Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 Every woman has her own set of rules. Some would have been horrified if he HAD gone for the kiss on the 2d date. Very true. With every girl I date I'm trying to guage what kind of girl she is very early on. Is she the kind of girl who you have to take things very slow and gentle with? or is she a girl who just wants to have fun and hook up? or is she somewhere in between? It's up to the girl to send the signals to let us men know how to act. If you don't give us ANYTHING to work with, we might just assume going for a kiss might make you uncomfortable. All this being said, I think the OP is a headcase.
Lakeside_runner Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 I want a real man. Where are they? We are doing the Ironman triathlons
Ihavenoidea Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 He probably wasnt into you. Or you never gave him a signal, or he was being a gentleman, or he likes to take it slow because he has been burned, or he thought it would scare you. I mean really?. Theres a million reasons why he didnt kiss you. $80 isnt that much to everyone. I have taken women to football games where tickets are $250 each, and I have taken them to the zoo for free. Money shouldnt even make a difference on the first kiss situation
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