airjordan Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Hi Everyone, I met this girl about 2 months ago. So instead of asking for her number, I had asked her for her email. We started talking through email until I asked for her number. She gave me her number and we talked through yahoo messenger, I know I should of called her instead. I was a little shy to call her because I didn't want those awkward pauses. Anyways, I asked her out and she did go out with me twice. Every time i text message her, she'd respond right and our conversation goes well. I always give her hints that I'm interested in her but I never get anything back. I know she's been hurt in the past, but still if she was interested she'd show some interest right? She seems a little shy when I do talk to her. And when I do give her hints, she acts so oblivious. The only thing she said was where can I find a boyfriend like you because I told her what I use to do for my ex-gf. Also, I told her last night I wanted to be with her and wanted to get to know her more. But it didn't go anywhere. I do like her, should I forget about her and stop talking to her?
D-Lish Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Ask her out again. Did she act shy when you told her you liked her, or did she just change the subject? Have you tried holding her hand or going in for a kiss?
Author airjordan Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 Thanks so much for the reply. I didn't try to hold her hand or kiss yet. I'll do that next time if we go out. She did ask why do you like me and not any other girls? Yeah, subject went to something else right after I told her why and she explained how she went through a lot in her life. I told her through yahoo messenger. I always joked around with her before that I wanted her to cook me some dinner and she always asks me when do I want my dinner.
D-Lish Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 Thanks so much for the reply. I didn't try to hold her hand or kiss yet. I'll do that next time if we go out. She did ask why do you like me and not any other girls? Yeah, subject went to something else right after I told her why and she explained how she went through a lot in her life. I told her through yahoo messenger. I always joked around with her before that I wanted her to cook me some dinner and she always asks me when do I want my dinner. Then it sounds like she is interested and just the kind of girl that likes the guy to make the primary moves. She's asking when you want that dinner- so tell her this Sunday would be nice and you'll bring wine or beer or dessert... I think you just need to go in for the kiss:love:
Cracker Jack Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 She really does seem shy about things, but it doesn't mean she's not interested. Some girls just aren't as open about those things. The fact that she didn't hit you with the "I only see you as a friend" at this point, shows that there's a good chance for you progress with her. And next time the emphasis is on the status between you two, don't allow it to change; keep it there and just be more upfront with her, about how you'll not allow her to be hurt anymore and things of that nature. I'm sure it'll be fine.
alphamale Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 , should I forget about her and stop talking to her? basically? yes
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