Cristoforo Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 she is having a bad day? The girl I like, but who I haven't gotten the courage to ask out yet, told me she was having a bad day when I walked by her and asked how her day was. Of course with a response like that it led me to stop ask why and it got a brief conversation going. Maybe I'm reading into this too much, but does that mean she wanted to talk to me? I mean, if a girl wanted nothing to do with me she could have just said she was good and in that case I would have just kept walking by. She went into private details of her life and why her day was not going well. Lately I've been picking up some signs that she could be interested. She initiated conversation the other day and on another day she was going into more private details about her life. She also gave me a personalized thank you card for something I did for this event that was hosted by her employer. I'm pretty sure she didn't give one to anyone else. Sometimes I think she is looking at me from across the room, and sometimes when I make eye contact with her, her eyes light up and her smile is like nothing I've ever seen. Do you think a girl who is super friendly towards you and initiates conversation with you and asks questions and is always receptive when you approach and tells you details about her life, is more likely to say 'yes' when you ask her out? I feel like if a girl is not interested, she won't be as receptive to your approaching and won't be as friendly and go out of her way to talk to you and be nice to you. Am I right about that? I just have no clue, and want to ask this girl out so bad but I fear rejection and also I feel like its never the right time to do it and I don't even know what to say.
PrettyinInk Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 i am generally nice to everyone, when approaced by them, it causes a lot of issues, because then guys think i like them, even when that is not necessarily true. i think you should really take a chance on it though, and ask her out, with all the things you said about her it seems you like her a lot, so it is worth a shot! btw, i would never tell anyone i was having a bad day if i didn't want to talk to them about it; especially not someone i wasn't already close too, so i think that is a good indication that she may be into you. good luck!
laRubiaBonita Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 she DOES like you. what you should do is ask her out soon, because things may go toward the friendzone or she may meet someone who does ask her out. do it!
brainygirl Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 it could mean she thinks you wont gossip about her problems all over work. It could mean she just needed to vent a little. I would advise not to read a whole lot into it, but try to say a nice thing to her and ask about what ever was bugging her to see if it got better. (DO NOT TRY TO FIX IT FOR HER) Just see what happens.
Author Cristoforo Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 she DOES like you. what you should do is ask her out soon, because things may go toward the friendzone or she may meet someone who does ask her out. do it! I plan on asking her out next Tuesday when I see her. I just have no clue how to ask. I'm a little rusty when it comes to dating. I've been single for a year and I'm finally healed from a breakup of a relationship that lasted 5 years. I'm ready to start dating again but I've been out of the game for so long. Any suggestions, advice to help me ask? What should I say exactly?
laRubiaBonita Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 when you see her, say hi and talk and all- then you could say something like you want to know if she would like to go out and get dinner with you or a see a movie..... easy!
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