beatingheartbaby Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 i was OP of no contact question... girlfriend broke up with me last monday. we have been no contact for one week. she texted me this morning, "hey"... ...WHAT DO I DO??!?!?!?!?!
Author beatingheartbaby Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 :mad::mad:im afraid i messed up. i texted her back, "hey, whats up?" SH*T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
extraordinarymachine Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 I wouldn't contact back yet. I'm sorry if that is hard for you to hear! I think a week isn't enough time for your ex to really evaluate the situation. Don't reply and let her think about things a little more. She may be wanting an emotional fix from you or just wanting to make sure she's still "in control" of the situation. Time will clear some of that stuff up. If you contact back now you could create a pattern where she knows she can get you to respond to her when she really needs affirmation or support, thus helping her feel less guilty about things ending while you feel more confused. Just my two cents, but please think about it and go with your gut. Only you know all the facts in this situation and you have to be able to live with the decisions you make.
cmichael16 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 if she replys take a lot longer, hours, or a day or 2 to respond, if at all. if its been a week of NC try to make it at least 2
Author beatingheartbaby Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 yes. she replied and asked what i was doing. and i said, "just heading out to workout. nice hearing from you." and she replied, "talk to you soon hopefully, :-)" wtf?? need advice. confused!!!
teanoranges Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 She's making sure she still has your attention. Don't trust it. My ex sent me texts about missing me and wanting to see me the most in the morning when he first wakes up... in the same week he gets really close to another girl. Its all fake.
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