lakeishap43 Posted January 24, 2004 Posted January 24, 2004 I really need some help. My boyfriend for 3 yrs. just broke up with me 2 sat. ago (jan 10, 04) I'm so confused about what happen. See we lived together and even talked about getting married. Actually he was going to ask me to marry him today (jan 24, 2004) when we went to a hockey game. he sat me down that sat. morning and told me that he just didn't think it was going to work out between me and him as a marriage but he still wanted me and him to be together. I was soooo confused because Christmas day he told everyone about his plan on asking me to marry him and he even bought the ring. He had all this planned out and then he did this to me. I don't know what to do?? is there anyone out there that can help me. then to beat it all off that night he broke up with me my best friend spent the night with him. needless to say i lost my temper with both of them. Not only that my so called best friend is my ex boyfriend best friend ex girlfriend. How could they do this to either one of us. I just don't understand. life got worse today when i called him and asked him who got my ticket for the hockey game and low and behold it's his ex girl ticket now!!!! HELP ME GET OVER THIS BEFORE I LOSE MY MIND, ANYONE!!! thanks, Keisha
Velveteel Posted January 24, 2004 Posted January 24, 2004 I'm so sorry you're going through this, but it sounds like a classic case of cold feet on your boyfriend's part. In his heart of hearts, he may have been undecided about the engagement. He's chosen the easy way out for himself--right down to his choice of rebound relationship. There's nothing safer than a woman who's been waiting in the wings for him and who he knows won't reject him. It's terrible to lose both your boyfriend and your best friend. Be glad your boyfriend didn't go ahead with the engagement, though. He might have pulled a stunt like this a year or two into your marriage.
Girlie Posted January 24, 2004 Posted January 24, 2004 I'm so sorry, sweetie. That's awful. I hope you will tell him to take his suggestion that the two of you stay together and stick it. Honestly, I know it hurts enormously, but it is so much better to find out what he's like now then to have walked down the aisle with him and THEN find out. My suggestion to you is that you find a way to move on with your life. Any guy who would fool around with your best friend does NOT deserve to be with you. Moving on is tough, but you really deserve someone who would not pull a stunt like this.
lakeishap43 Posted January 26, 2004 Posted January 26, 2004 thank you for your response but i just don't know how to move. that's the first thing i think of when i wake and the last thing when i go to sleep at night. i even have dreams about this sh*t how do i move on??????
DENTALASSISTANT Posted January 26, 2004 Posted January 26, 2004 You will have to take it one day at a time....I was engaged to a guy and he came home one day and told me he didn't love me anymore and then showed up the next day with his ex-girlfriend to help move his stuff out....How awful is that? Anyway...I just took it day to day..go out have fun....have a booty call with a hot guy...life is short..enjoy it!!!
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