lostsoul25 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Im trying to work out if I girl I talk to is interested in me or just being friendly. Maybe im trying to read more into it because I like her, which will mean she probably taken. Have talked to her quite a few times, always seems happy enough to chat when called in her small office, probably just to avoid working.It used to just be a hello dropped some stuff off and go. Certain people I find I couldn't talk to and not know what about. I did make the effort to get into conversation however it was when she was on her own, much more comfortable incase others are judging my motives lol. A while ago I got talking to her about my pets and showed her them at work so came down to see them. Times afterwards chatting has asked about them too so its always a good conversation point and always managed to ask questions n learn little bits about her, however theres never been any clue to if she is single or not or if she lives with anyone. Have been hoping to pick up on something to save myself the embarrassment. She went on holiday recently, again I was hoping to hear who she went with but nothing haha. A day or so ago I caught her in the corridor n was chatting,well mostly me but not excessively, she seemed interested and I realised that seemed to be stood fairly close together and that when giving eye contact when talking it was prolonged, so much so that I thought I should look away for a second but at the same time when looking back she didn't seem to bothered.even looked her in her eye for what seemed too long while talking just to see if she looked away, however i did. It got me thinking about body language and wondered could these be helpful hints Strangely when talking to other female friends ive never noticed the amount of eye contact between them, im sure i read somewhere that usually its very little and that prolonged has more meaning
Green Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 If you work with her I would watch out. But generaly as the man you should just assume any girl you like is interested and let her reject you. Why not casualy ask her out on a date and not make a deal about it if she says no. "how about we get dinner type of thing" then just kiss her at the end of the date.
Author lostsoul25 Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 she works in an office that i visit from time to time when got something of theirs. Theres two other females in her office I could ask but bottle it when ever the opportunity arises, or get someone to enquire. Im a wimp so if i do ask her, id wanna be fairly sure she is at least , not taken
Green Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 she works in an office that i visit from time to time when got something of theirs. Theres two other females in her office I could ask but bottle it when ever the opportunity arises, or get someone to enquire. Im a wimp so if i do ask her, id wanna be fairly sure she is at least , not taken If you make a move and she rejects, you really havn't lost out on anything. If you don't make a move and she would have been interested then you missed your chance, which in my opinion is worse then asking and getting rejected. More romantic to put yourself out there and not be certain. I asked my current gf out in the first conversation we had. I heard her speak, and she sounded beautiful, then when I saw her I just couldn't stop staring. I walked up to her, introduced myself and tried to convince her to come to a fundraiser event with me, she actualy turned me down but gave me her number anyway. I ended up convincing her to go on a great date, I felt electricity when I kissed her and she felt it too. If I had been to afraid to take a chance and ask her out and kiss her I would have never gotten her to become my gf. There are no sure things, I've been rejected by plenty of girls and it really doesn't bother me to think back on it.
alphamale Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 none to this means squat. you have to ask her out to find out if she is interested or not.
Author lostsoul25 Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 I was in her office again today, general chitchat with the other colleagues. so not really one to one seemed a little busy maybe. shame and again I forgot to check out the hands for rings I guess Im a wimp and taking that leap is so big for me. showing the interestn asking.,altho even if taken or rejected its a good self esteem boost for the person. im sure she wouldnt be nasty to me, seems really lovely. am tempted to ask a friend at work if she can at least find out if she is single.however that probs will still work out that its me enquiring.
homersheineken Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I was in her office again today, general chitchat with the other colleagues. so not really one to one seemed a little busy maybe. shame and again I forgot to check out the hands for rings I guess Im a wimp and taking that leap is so big for me. showing the interestn asking.,altho even if taken or rejected its a good self esteem boost for the person. im sure she wouldnt be nasty to me, seems really lovely. am tempted to ask a friend at work if she can at least find out if she is single.however that probs will still work out that its me enquiring. Why do you care if she's single or not? Just ask her out, she'll tell you then.
Author lostsoul25 Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 Well its a big thing to just blurt out. do u wanna go out sometime or are you single. Awkward if she isnt available and awkward if she isnt interested
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