sonsi5 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 A married man is trying to convince me that having sex with me would help him overcome life long feeling that he has for me. I am not in love with him but i am attracted on many levels to that person. I just do not see how a transient sexual contact would help him get over me, he has liked me for 25 years since we were in our teens. I am not single either albeit not married. It goes against my morality and I personally think it would make me feel bad. He is very persistent and I do not understand man, his wife is very pretty and they have a kid. Why do man get so hang up on one person that they do not get to be with, I mean i liked man in the past that did not care for me but i do not think of them at all.
Spark1111 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Because some people, in their immature delusions, believe the grass is greener on the other side, or they always want what they cannot have. They are children who want to act out the "what if" fantasy. Say no and run away.
Green Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 If it were me I wouldn't even be trying to understand the lack of logic in his request. Why are you even tempted, just cut all contact with this person if possible.
Dexter Morgan Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 A married man is trying to convince me that having sex with me would help him overcome life long feeling that he has for me. I am not in love with him but i am attracted on many levels to that person. I just do not see how a transient sexual contact would help him get over me, he has liked me for 25 years since we were in our teens. I am not single either albeit not married. It goes against my morality and I personally think it would make me feel bad. He is very persistent and I do not understand man, his wife is very pretty and they have a kid. Why do man get so hang up on one person that they do not get to be with, I mean i liked man in the past that did not care for me but i do not think of them at all. If you are thinking about cheating, then for god's sake, break up with your bf first. he deserves better. Hell, whether you actually cheat or not, break up with him. You will cheat sooner or later....don't say thats not true either. People with temptations like you only get more ancy with time. break up, get this out of your system and don't commit again until you are ready and aren't gonna want to bone a guy that you are simply attracted to. attitudes like that are not fit for a committed relationship
jwi71 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 A married man is trying to convince me that having sex with me would help him overcome life long feeling that he has for me. I am not in love with him but i am attracted on many levels to that person. I just do not see how a transient sexual contact would help him get over me, he has liked me for 25 years since we were in our teens. I am not single either albeit not married. It goes against my morality and I personally think it would make me feel bad. He is very persistent and I do not understand man, his wife is very pretty and they have a kid. Why do man get so hang up on one person that they do not get to be with, I mean i liked man in the past that did not care for me but i do not think of them at all. This is the laziest yet most ingenious pick up line ever. Awesome. The amazing simplicity of it. "I loved you forever and the only way I can get closure (ha) is by having a night of wild monkey sex with you." And you're considering it. I am so printing this thread and looking up ex high school girlfriends - my weekend outlook just got MUCH better.
Dexter Morgan Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 This is the laziest yet most ingenious pick up line ever. Awesome. The amazing simplicity of it. and yet its working on the OP. not everyone can be Jabba The Hut and resiste the old Jedi mind trick
Snowflower Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Okay so which is it? When I read the title you wrote, "Tempted to cheat with a married man" it sounds to me like you are considering having sex with him...just SO TEMPTED that it's out of your control. Then I read your post and it sounds like you have talked yourself out of the 'temptation' realizing it is morally wrong and not a good idea. Reread what you wrote in your post over and over again...you know what the right answer is, now stick to that.
carhill Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 I'm going to try this line this weekend. Still married, so I won't be lying about that. Going without for over a year drives a man to do crazy things OP, seriously, if you're sincere here (I'm often skeptical of new posters and controversial or inflammatory topics), he's BS'ing you. Men (some men) do this for sport. He's the Fuller Brush (dating myself) man of sex. Knock on enough doors and a housewife will let you in. So, with that in mind, enjoy whatever your path is. If you normally have NSA sex with men you barely know, that's your path. If not, not. Good luck and welcome to LS
LostIt2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 how about thinking of the guys wife, what if that was you. or what if your boyfriend did that to you. just because something is a secret doesn't make it right, and doesn't mean you should hurt other people just because they might not know. you are about to jump into a mess. and what a scumbag that guy is.
Cinnamon2000 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 A married man is trying to convince me that having sex with me would help him overcome life long feeling that he has for me. I am not in love with him but i am attracted on many levels to that person. I just do not see how a transient sexual contact would help him get over me, he has liked me for 25 years since we were in our teens. I am not single either albeit not married. It goes against my morality and I personally think it would make me feel bad. He is very persistent and I do not understand man, his wife is very pretty and they have a kid. Why do man get so hang up on one person that they do not get to be with, I mean i liked man in the past that did not care for me but i do not think of them at all. You should tell his wife. That would make him stop for good.
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