blahh Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 We've been broken up for 4 months now. She's been dating another guy for 1.5 months. She seems to be really happy (she's going to go to LV and Hawaii) Have any of you ladies broke up w/someone, rebounded and was happy but eventually wanted your ex back?
lullaby Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I've been in a relationship for more than 4 years, ended it because there was someone I liked, besides many other issues we had with my ex. My crush for that guy lasted two months more or less until I felt I wanted to take my ex back because I realized I was in love with him. The bad news is that he was already with someone else so didn't want to take me back because he said he was really hurt so I lost my chance with him and moved on. Anyway, it all depends on the type of situation you're in. Do you talk to her or something? do you know if she is in love with the other guy? because if she is really happy, you can't sit waiting for her to decide to come back, in the meantime, you should try to move on because it's painful for you, but again... I don't know much about your situation
paleblue Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 my suggestion to you is move on. dust yourself off, and start moving on with your life. find someone that is better for you. your ex gf isnt thinking about you anymore. she is thinking about her new man. and they are making plans and living their life now. that is what you should start doing. besides do you really want her back??? after what she has done? there is a good chance that even if you got back together the same thing is just going to happen again. my point is things fell apart at least once already, if you got back together the same thing is going to happen. just keep reading these boards if you don’t believe me. I know its hard to do, been there, done that, but looking back, all I can say is this is my best advice to you going forward. it is never the same the second time around. forget her and find a new woman. you will be happier in the long run.
Author blahh Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 no we don't talk anymore. thanks for the replies.
CaliGuy Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 We've been broken up for 4 months now. She's been dating another guy for 1.5 months. She seems to be really happy (she's going to go to LV and Hawaii) Have any of you ladies broke up w/someone, rebounded and was happy but eventually wanted your ex back? Short answer: No. Long answer: Read the links in my thread. Your ex has decided to move on with someone else so your best course of action is to do the same. Write her off, learn from the experience and be open to meeting someone new. You can NOT live life while staring at the past. Life itself will pass you by before you know it. You will spend the best years of your life wondering what YOU did wrong. Odds are, nothing! Look, not every relationship is meant to work out or be forever. Take the experiences you have where YOU could improve on implement what you learn in the next relationship. You should be learning and growing not crying and moaning, got it? Move forward not backwards. Cheers.
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