audrey_1 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I am trying not to think about this too much, as I have other things to do, and I don't want to get too caught up in relationship stuff, but... There is a guy I've seen off and on for about three years. We haven't been physically intimate in the last year or two, but we've kind of kept in touch. Me moreso than him. We used to live a two-hour drive apart, but now we live right down the street from one another. We didn't speak or see each other for about three months. Then I passed him driving a couple times, and I approached him to go hiking. No one else I know is interested in going but him, and I think he runs into the same problem. We had a great time. So as we're leaving he asks if I want to have coffee later. We did. Great conversation. We come and go separately. So I get a text from him asking to have coffee last night at 8, where most of our get-togethers are during the day. Great conversation and leave separately again. Only this time, it seemed like he was in no hurry to leave. We just kept sitting and talking. I realized how late it was and needed to go, since I had to be at work this morning. He kept talking to me even as we were walking to our cars, and said maybe we could grab coffee again on Friday. Didn't specify day or night. And I'm not following up to clarify. He will have to let me know. He even mentioned watching a movie at my or his place. He was seeing someone, and I'm not sure if he still is, and I haven't asked. When I realized he was dating around, that's when I pulled back to "just friends" and would only meet him in public. So what his going on here? Am I reading too much into this? Is he rethinking our going from dating to just friends? I want to make sure I stay calm, but I really don't like surprises, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. Should I just not worry about his intentions? Any idea what those may even be??
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