pgummins Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I was the 'other man' for seven months. I work with her and trying my ****ing best to move on. Booked off a month from work to have a break, and on the way home from work I see her walking, laughing and shopping with her boyfriend. I'd rather be dead than going through this. Its all ups and downs and I'm sick of it. I guess it closure that she is in a happier relationship than I thought and I guess there is definitely no hope. :(
sally4sara Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Oh man! I think I would've walked up to them and stood there just to see her break into a sweat with worry that you'd bust her out. But that is just me and I'd have had to be lied to about her status to have dated her while she was in a relationship.
Author pgummins Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 She made it well known, but made it sound like it was really on the rocks, and I ****ing resent her for that. Mixed signals etc. Gonna take me a long time to get over this girl
sean1970 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I was the 'other man' for seven months. she made it well known, but made it sound like it was really on the rocks, and I ****ing resent her for that. Mixed signals etc. Gonna take me a long time to get over this girl After knowing how she treated her BF.... Really? Is that the quality of woman you are looking for?
Author pgummins Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 Hey man, That totally sucks but lets be honest:(, but to be honest I think you had a lucky escape. Imagine for a second if shoe was on the other foot and you were the boyfriend she was cheating on. How would you feel? Imagine further supposed she left her boyfriend for you and decided to still keep wanted to keep her 'options open' and decided to do the same thing to you that had done to her boyfriend. Frankly she's a very very self centred person whose only interested in herself and what she wants. A similar things happened to a friend of mine. I showed her this . It may help you or it may not. Only you can decide.:):):) Thanks so much man, youre right, its just so hard to accept reality. Thanks for video, never seen them before!
Author pgummins Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 Hey man, That totally sucks but lets be honest:(, but to be honest I think you had a lucky escape. Imagine for a second if shoe was on the other foot and you were the boyfriend she was cheating on. How would you feel? Imagine further supposed she left her boyfriend for you and decided to still keep wanted to keep her 'options open' and decided to do the same thing to you that had done to her boyfriend. Frankly she's a very very self centred person whose only interested in herself and what she wants. A similar things happened to a friend of mine. I showed her this . It may help you or it may not. Only you can decide.:):):) Wow, I watched it, thats her... a puppet mistress.
2yearsNC Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 I know what your going through. I've been there and the one thing I've learned about females like this is simply this: They do what you allow them to do. Its up to you to stand up for what you like & don't like. You already knew the type of person she was while she was with you. She already made the claim that she had someone, silly you for falling in love. I don't know what to say about your situation, if you feel anger and hate toward the girl, you can sabatoge their relationship but men don't do that. I think you just have to take this as a lost and when her relationship gets rocky again, which it will, she will come back to you and the pattern will contiune for as long as you like. You will always be second best or at most an alternative "dick" whom she can use when she wants it. I don't know what to say about females like this, I've known allot of them and the thing I have come to realize and learn is that, they have some deep underlying issues which causes them to NOT face their problems or simply run from it until it blows over. I don't know what to say about your girlfriend. She appears to be loyal, given the fact that she went back to her boyfriend, then again she let you fawk her and probably sucked your cock. In the end, why would you want someone like that? Thats a whore. Thats a user. Thats not a person who is moral. To be blunt, she told you the situation. You are a fool for falling in love. To be even more direct, you should be thankful your not her boyfriend (the main one). It seems to me like she was just using you to fill her time while she got her man back. I don't blame her, unless she was cheating on him and he didn't do anything wrong. Eitherway, I'm sorry you feel in love with a whore.
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