Cantcope Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Today is day 16 with NC. I find myself trying to keep busy at night and I'm learning to get into a routine without him. But I still spend most of my waking time thinking about him! Will this go away soon? I try to think about other things, but they just go right back to him. The longer we are apart, I feel that the chances of him contacting me are less and less, but I noticed something. The thought of him contacting me brings so much anxiety, that I'm starting to hope he doesn't. Will I be better soon? I wake up every damn morning at 5:30 and lay in bed for an hour trying to sleep more, but not being able to shake thoughts of him. Thoughts of him being happier without me, thoughts of him meeting someone better.
Vova427 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I am in the same boat... 4 days and I miss her more and more each day... But I know that she is not comming back
monkeywithagun Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I think its only going to get worse for you because it is extremely hard to shake all the memories out of your system.. but eventually it will get better. Just hang in there. Don't let yourself fall into the love/memory hole. Do as you have and keep yourself busy busy.. I'm sorry and i hope you feel better. Just remember you aren't alone. This is day 2 for me. My battle has only begun.
lvixen Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I used to think about my ex 24/7 when I was with him and even shortly after we broke up. Two months into NC some days are better than others. Some days I think about him quite frequently others maybe once every 3 hours. So yes it will get better. Be patient.
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